But it's not just always thinking about them, it's the surge of emotion when ever they're near, it's that disappointment when they have to go, it's the jealousy when they speak to someone else, it's the flutter when their skin brushes against yours, it's the blush on your cheeks when they catch you sneaking glimpses at them. It's one of the most confusing times of your life
Especially if they occasionally drop casual hints that make you think he might like you back so you go back and forth debating if he loves you or loves you not and you drive yourself nuts.
Oh my god you have just described my life. My crush does this kind of things all the damn time, I went to his house (it was his birthday party) and he was like super happy and smiling and then he completely ignored me for the rest of the night. It's so confusing
The exact same thing is happening with this guy im into. He's just getting over this one chick, but he calls me beautiful and perfect and I think he genuinely means it, but then our conversations will end suddenly leaving me thinking 'what the hell have I done?' It's confusing and if he does like me he needs to hurry the fuck up and tell me because I'm sick of these games, anyone else like this?
I've been holding back feelings for a while now and I'm considering just coming clean with it all and telling him I have feelings before the new year that way if I get total rejection I can leave it all in 2015.
That's still good, I would tell my crush but not only do we go to the same school but we work together too, I don't want things to get awkward between us if he finds out, you know?
Mines my best friend, she stays the night a lot still, she's known the past 3 years it gets a bit akward sometimes mainly the first couple weeks after I told her but otherwise things are pretty much non weird.
Yea I guess that would be a worry, I've never even thought of that. I was certain if she found out I'd lose my best friend, in the end I told her because she had been led on and dragged through mud and I didn't want her believing she was unlovable as that bastard had told her
because it takes two people with mutual feelings, and some mutual interests, a few irritating qualities for each, and so on to have a relationship and feelings not returned tear you to shreds so you don't put yourself in that danger often.
Update on my situation, Ivebeen thinking about what we've talked about and I told my crush I sort of like him and he said he sort of liked me too and.. YESS!! Worth it guys, it's worth the risk
Yeah, it's confusing. Especially when you try to ignore it but find yourself staring at them anyway. And when they randomly contact you out of the blue you are giddy and overjoyed, but still confused so wait a few days to reply. And then they never reply to you. This leaves you a ball of insecurity and raw fury, becoming a grump to everyone and seething with sadness. GODDAMMIT JERRY! WHY DO YOU HAVE THIS POWER OVER ME!
THIS SHOULD NOT BE DIFFICULT