I'd guess you're trans?
I'm familiar with "t-girls", so my assumption is as a "t-guy" you would go for "bottoms", or effeminate guys as you said.
Btw please take no offense, I was just curious and I've never been afraid to ask questions.
I don't take any offense at all, yes I unfortunately am trans. I would like to top guys, but you can't really get decent prosthetics until you've been on hormones a whole.
Well I can see that. I don't think anyone should be ashamed of who they are (unless it's pedophiles or something), but I realize that's easier said than done.
@guestwho unrelated note; There is a movement afoot to end the otherization stigma attached to pedophiles in our culture. I read something about it a few months ago and wanted to go punch a few of them.
Yeah I've seen that shit too. It's actually been around awhile. NAMBLA has been spreading filth for decades, and I know there are other groups out there as well as leftist tumblr types who just claim we shouldn't shame them because they can't help it or some such bullshit.
There is a huge difference between, say, gay consenting adults or interracial relationships and child abusers or farm animal rapists.
I'm with you; I'd be happy to shit stomp every one of those freaks.
Guestwho, I don't say unfortunately because I'm ashamed or anything, but because of barriers in society (employers who won't like me etc) and also because gender dysphoria is pretty rough. My parents are not accepting so I have to listen to all their shit and wear crap clothes.
Plus there's relationships, a lot of people won't be able to deal with that, and even more don't have a proper idea of what's possible and won't bother even trying.
Scared as shit for uni, where I'll have to do all my name change stuff myself, start hormones myself (a good change but it is very major) and worry about being attacked.
Unfortunately there's more to being trans than just shame :/
Hope this was informative
Please don't come out to your family until you leave home, my parents actually /asked/ me if I was trans then got mad when I finally gathered up the courage to come out.. Wtf
@tguy I get where you're coming from. I'd like to say I understand but since I don't have to deal with any of that myself it'd just be a hollow platitude. How about I just say good luck?
I like guys who look like that personally (and people who are almost the polar opposite, and any guy in between). And, I think it shows that they aren't pussies like some of us who are afraid to look "edgy" or "effeminate" or "stupid" in the eyes of criticizers, because style is supposed to personal, not whatever the fuck everyone else wants them to wear instead that doesn't look "stupid".
They look so edgy, I almost cut myself!
I'm familiar with "t-girls", so my assumption is as a "t-guy" you would go for "bottoms", or effeminate guys as you said.
Btw please take no offense, I was just curious and I've never been afraid to ask questions.
There is a huge difference between, say, gay consenting adults or interracial relationships and child abusers or farm animal rapists.
I'm with you; I'd be happy to shit stomp every one of those freaks.
Plus there's relationships, a lot of people won't be able to deal with that, and even more don't have a proper idea of what's possible and won't bother even trying.
Scared as shit for uni, where I'll have to do all my name change stuff myself, start hormones myself (a good change but it is very major) and worry about being attacked.
Unfortunately there's more to being trans than just shame :/
Hope this was informative