I agree. There's almost nothing worse than being led on and fucked around.
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· 7 years ago
Even worse when it's the type of person who likes having orbiters so when they think they're gonna lose one they go and lead them on just so another person can't get them
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· 7 years ago
Those people need a kick in the butt.
Story time: when I was about 14/15 I really liked this boy who was about 16, he was a friend but we kissed a lot and I wanted him to ask me out (I was cripplingly shy with this sort of stuff) but he never did. So I got up the courage to ask him. He said no cus he already had a girlfriend, he'd been with her for over a year. It crushed me and I kept my distance for ages. When I was 16 I got with my husband, and only after finding out I lost my virginity did my "friend" try to get me to leave my husband and be with him! I promptly told him where to stick it. He actually messaged me a few weeks back asking for forgiveness. I deleted it without reading it.
I was this type of person when I was younger and I'm really sorry to everyone I've hurt and I know I don't deserve the forgiveness a lot of them gave me anyway. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive this man, and I'm sorry on his behalf.
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· 7 years ago
Cus I'm salty AF guest and he was an asshole. @diyrogue he doesn't deserve my forgiveness, I will no longer be anyone's doormat. @cassyinlove imma not judge you for what you've done but you've got to understand that I've got too much going on in my life to mend bridges with an asshole that doesn't deserve my reply let alone forgiveness. I may one day, but not now.
There's no such thing as a friend zone. You're a friend of his/hers because you either tried and were rejected (meaning you have been told there's no chance, it's up to you to leave if you don't want to just be friends) or you haven't tried anything and they don't know you're interested (meaning you haven't made yourself a choice and so you have no chance). The so-called "friend zone" is something you put YOURSELF in, because you keep convincing yourself you have a shot and won't leave. You're leading yourself on by pretending you have a chance, and leading them on by lying to them and letting them think you value the friendship as-is. If you don't want to just be friends, then don't be friends. Say goodbye. Move on, eat a bunch of ice cream dejectedly, slowly get over your heartbreak, and find somebody else.
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· 7 years ago
So true! I'll try and remember this posting as topic reference!
Story time: when I was about 14/15 I really liked this boy who was about 16, he was a friend but we kissed a lot and I wanted him to ask me out (I was cripplingly shy with this sort of stuff) but he never did. So I got up the courage to ask him. He said no cus he already had a girlfriend, he'd been with her for over a year. It crushed me and I kept my distance for ages. When I was 16 I got with my husband, and only after finding out I lost my virginity did my "friend" try to get me to leave my husband and be with him! I promptly told him where to stick it. He actually messaged me a few weeks back asking for forgiveness. I deleted it without reading it.