The irony

Men get money to attract a more desirable mate (prettier, richer, smarter, etc.) and women work on their bodies to attract a more desirable mate (more handsome, rich, successful, etc.), so when they also attract less desirable mates (gold diggers, men who view women as sex objects) they reject them

But it really doesn't actually have any impact on them, does it
Hate gold diggers, don't date them like if they show any sign, break up
Don't wanna be sex object, stay away from those dudes
No one forces you to be around those fuckers

Both money and good looks are used for initial attraction. If that's all you offer or are interested in, the relationship will suck.

Honestly, my worst fear is to become someone like that.