Please enlighten me

It doesn't change that fact though...

You can hardly raise a store screaming brat .it raised itself .

Right. You're a spoiled self entitled brat but it must be someone else's fault. My wife and I didn't raise our kids to expect a trophy for just participating and expect a pat on the head for doing what is normally expected of everybody, but I can't very well control how other people raise their kids. There's just a time in your life where you have to take responsibility for yourself and the fact that you can't do that shows you're not ready to be an adult yet.