When her husband came early

What I want to know is why (not on here but in general) the partner will bash the cheater's other bf or gf instead of the cheater. If you help someone cheat on someone else knowingly, you're a dick, but whatever. It's the partners' responsibility to keep their relationship stable, not someone else's.

What if the guy had no idea she was married?

The elusive naked jackass bird is a flightless and cowardly bird. This one sensed a predator and sought the high ground.