I wouldn't ban her. She trick him . Lucky that the cops didn't find out and pull the liquor license. She is already a regular customer , so pull some tricks on her and have a sense of humor about it.
She could have had a fake ID. She wanted to underage drink and her doing that can get others in trouble. If she meets a guy there, hes to assume shes 21 but guess who gets in trouble ? Him. If they find out she drunk there but showed a fake or those " real but it's someone else who looks similar " ones shes not the one that gets in the most trouble despite her being the one deciding to break the law.
So even if the bar manager WAS carding correctly, she was attempting to break the law. You dont let someone off because you didn't catch them stealing before they left the store. Dont let her off for it because she's legally allowed there now.
There you go naughtybear. What's done is done. It's a hard lesson on checking ids in the future but no harm was done. Now you have a regular customer.Diyrogue, you are right about the harm that could of happened. I fear for my girls that are 21 and older drinking but I don't worry the same for the boys. The girls I fry to drill into their heads to never, ever leave a drink unattended , careful in parking lot ect. Boys I worry more about doing something stupid ,getting hurt, or needing to be bailed out of jail.
So even if the bar manager WAS carding correctly, she was attempting to break the law. You dont let someone off because you didn't catch them stealing before they left the store. Dont let her off for it because she's legally allowed there now.