I think it depends on reciprocation. If your friends are busy, but keep in touch with you as much as you do then, great! But if you have friends who flake on plans, don’t respond to you until forever later, etc. that’s where it becomes an issue.
I have a friend who has canceled or not made time for me when I really needed them. Anytime they contact me, they list off all sorts of things and reasons why they couldn’t get back to me.
And I’m just sitting here like, “why do you keep telling me all the things that are more important to you than me”.
I have a friend who has canceled or not made time for me when I really needed them. Anytime they contact me, they list off all sorts of things and reasons why they couldn’t get back to me.
And I’m just sitting here like, “why do you keep telling me all the things that are more important to you than me”.