The Friend Zone is a bullshit, misogynistic, make-believe land Nice Guys have come up with to demonize women for not wanting to date them. They use it as an excuse to ignore the fact that there are actual reasons behind their decision to not pursue a relationship or have sex with this guy. You know, like not being physically attracted to them. Or not being able to connect with them. Or seeing through their crap and realizing that the only reason these guys are even friends with them in the first place is so they can get laid.
I am a guy and i do agree with most of this but there are times where guys do become truly in love with a good friend of theirs and cant go anywhere with it because they are too close and dont want to ruin that. They aren't necessarily mad at the girl either. Any guy who says its a girls fault isnt a "nice guy." When ive been in what ive considered the friendzone i wasnt mad at anyone but myself for having no courage. If i tell the girl and she denies, im just sad as hell but i cant be mad at anyone.
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