The truth has been spoken

The goat thinks the expense is not the biggest issue here.

I 100% agree with this. My father cheated on my mum after almost 25 years of being together. They have 4 kids together ffs. When my mum dumped him he revealed he wanted to leave my mum before finding out she was pregnant with my older sister who is now 22. My mum feels like she's wasted her life.