For the love of god

Gay is not a gender

Yes because gay should not be used as an insult to anyone. It does not mean stupid or dumb or boring or girly. Buy a thesaurus asshat

It means stupid, dumb, boring or girly just as much as it means homosexual. Why can "gay" people change or add meaning to a word but everyone else cannot?

That's incorrect. The original meaning of the word was "happy". Gay became a code word used between closeted homosexuals. Using gay as a word that means stupid, dumb, boring, etc. is homophobic.

Maybe guest is just expressing his glee over him being banned. Why do you people take it offensively immediately? How rude.