This seriously points out something that drives me nuts. If a guy can take a hint and tell her "maybe some other time," he might be able to chat with her another time when she isn't as pressed for time or doesn't feel the need to be so wary (like meets him on campus instead of in a bar where she has to keep her eye on her drink at all times). Or, if she's got a beau or he just isn't her type, he doesn't alienate all her friends who might be around or might ask her later if she knows the guy who started to express some interest in the second girl.
Girls need to be on the lookout for guys who are @$$holes, so why confirm that you are one? It's like a 2-year-old's tantrum to say "Well, you're ugly anyway" because you didn't get what you wanted when you wanted it.
Girls need to be on the lookout for guys who are @$$holes, so why confirm that you are one? It's like a 2-year-old's tantrum to say "Well, you're ugly anyway" because you didn't get what you wanted when you wanted it.