Who gets to be the man?

*dies*

Ellen said something similar, her comparison being "That's like asking which chopstick is the fork."
Sadly most people I talk to still don't get it.

Who is that?

Just curious: the last part, is she implying that men enjoy watching lesbian sex?

Tl:dr

The chick in the relationship is the one with the beiber haircut.

She sure looks like the guy in the relationship