Thank god for this site

I mean swabbing can only do so much especially with brass instruments with all the twists and turns, I immediately thought of the spit valves. But I mean these guys are professionals so I'm sure they wouldn't do anything that might damage their instruments.

Internetwarrior I do as well! Usually I touch people's faces while I watch it.

I mean it's kindof like leaves falling in autumn you don't necessarily have to clean it up because it's part of nature.

Well thank you for your take on it :). My dad struggles with anxiety and depression so while he pushes people away, at the same time he doesn't like being alone. When my parents got divorced he was constantly dating woman after woman, because he was looking for that companionship, that I so desperately want to give him. That's the most frustrating thing because he's always so amazing with his girlfriends and giving them all this love and attention that he never gave me. For example I was lucky if he took me out to dinner (after begging to spend time together) and most of the time during those dinners he would be texting some woman. I think what happened was once I left for college and the house was truly empty he realized how alone he was. He treated my mom in a very similar way.

Squeezing can actually make pugs eyes pop out.