This time last year I would've called that bullshit, but yeah, I'm actually okay (: now you have to move in that direction too

Y'know.. I worried about how much leaving him would hurt.. but it doesn't.. I know that sounds weird after two years with him, but every other aspect of my life immediately got better.. work, friends, family, all of it

Not your relationship, but he was doing the same thing, only on a grander scale

Ngl that whole situation was the reason I left raventastic

Relationships hurt. Alot. It all depends on whether you get more good than pain. Maybe sit down with him, and voice your concerns. Tell him he doesn't have to reply right then and that it's something you both have to think about. Then come back to it in a couple days and see how you both feel

That's totally valid. You just can't use hurting him as your reason because everyone knows deep down that's bullshit. For the next year at the very least your philosophy needs to be do it for you or not at all

That's the kind of thing that goes in phases unfortunately. At first he'll be happy about it, and then it'll feel routine but still good, then he'll convince himself he's in a rut and not know why, then y'all might have an explosive fight that'll either end with me kicking his ass, or he'll snap back to the real world and remember who he's with and how lucky he is

Bed is fun. Talking is fun. Netflix is fun

Also I'm sorry if my replies are sporadic, I'm not ignoring you

Ah hell. A ojYou read too many john green books. I can't say he'll be just perfect and not have feelings, but he deserves a chance to show you he's not lying when he says he cares. If he hurts you I'll kick his ass myself

Oh why? What changed

That's not what I mean at all hun! I'm more than happy to be here for you, but I'm no professional, and I have no idea what I'm doing. I want you to feel better, and honestly there's no way just talking to me can do that for you, believe me I've tried.

It sounds petty, but everyone goes through that at some point, and there is an end. Something as life changing as your situation might be bringing on some depression, and talking to a therapist wouldn't hurt. Just to have an objective source whose only goal is for you to not need them?

*chorus* save me daddy

You're gonna be alright kid

Absolutely not. You're my best friend. I'd never consider you a burden. Ever. I won't go into too much detail, but my past friendships have been anything but healthy, and you're the most supportive, and funny, and genuine person I think I've ever met. It's no problem for me to be there for you because that's what friends do. Not out of having to, but because I want to, and you deserve to feel cared for

I'll admit this is uncharted territory for me, and probably for them as well. They're just worried about you, and maybe even know how bad you want that normalcy. It's possible to get so caught up in trying to act the same that you turn into a whole new person, but once they realize your personality is still going strong in there, they'll go back

I can't make your decision for you, but I can say that even with that outcome, the people who love you will still love you. You'll still be Sadie no matter what, I promise

Hmph. This sounds cold but if you wanted to die you wouldn't be nervous about the surgery

That's a lieeeeee

No you dontttt and if you do I will reverse haunt youuuu

Just make sure you take mini breaks, like five every twenty, okay? You being safe is more important

Sorry hunny, maybe a nice bath and a podcast?

Dentist boi giving you a ~workout~? *I say while knowing the actual reason and being v concerned*

Nah bish, you couldn't get rid of me if you tried xD