I love salads but 6 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
I just had one of these mistake salads last night....mmmmmm
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Well played, Disney. Well played 8 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
The problem with boob shaped armor is the fact that it wouldn't be as strong and can be more of a hindrance than helpful. If you were a woman going into war with plate armor, you're most likely binding your chest anyways.
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Well played, Disney. Well played 8 comments
basically my life. 232 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
Rose is right, I was not calling you that. I said if you did go through with those plans, you would be. There is a vast difference. How old are you spidey? If you're a minor, we can find you help where you can still remain anonymous and no one will contact your friends/family. But you reached out for help first, we are offering help, so do not be angry that we are offering help.
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basically my life. 232 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
I know that I'm probably not helping, that you still think and feel that you're a miserable person who is destined for nothing but a life of pain. If I was with you, I'd drag you to the nearest center for help. There is obviously an illness that you are fighting, and what do we do when sick? We go to doctors for help. That is what you need to do, because believe it or not, you are quite ill, and in order to cure illness, we go to others for help. I'll stop commenting now, but next time you think about cutting/self-harm, take a minute to think about reaching out to someone that won't contact your friends or mother. Go onto: http://www.depressionquest.com/ <-- if you haven't already. It's a good narrative and can help put into perspective the fact that you are so far from being alone.
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basically my life. 232 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
It really is too bad you feel that way. I was literally like you once, and the only corny, but cheesy and true thing I can say is: it does get better. Why do you think people won't give up on you? It's because they care, and if you kill yourself, you are being a selfish piece of shit that is going to hurt SO MANY PEOPLE and they will hurt like you do now for years to come. Do you want to do that to others? Because suicide is the easy way out. It's the selfish, mean way out that affects more people than you realize. And while others may seem to move on after a time, that hurt never truly goes away. For me to stop hurting myself, it took medication and a LOT of therapy. And I'm off meds and haven't had to do therapy for years, but you know what? I've still hurt myself from time to time when I've been overwhelmed. It hasn't been often, but I've done it, so the struggle will not go away, but life gets better. I promise you that.
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basically my life. 232 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
That is a very horrible, terrible thing to say. Just because I don't know you does not mean I have no cares. I have had people call me ugly, tell me I'm stupid on the Internet, and even though we don't know each other, those comments still hurt. Positive comments are also uplifting. You are hurting, and if we were in the same room and you had indicated you were hurting, I would want to help you. I'm sure people have posted worse, I'm quite sure. But this is you and your hurt at this point in time. And I care about people cutting, because it's a slippery slope. I am not you, I don't know your exact pain, but we all experience pain, and I ache that you feel none of us would care. We do. It may not be in the way you want, but we care, we acknowledge your existence. If you want to talk through a not so anonymous source, I have no problem giving you my Facebook or phone number if it means you have someone to talk to in order to stop hurting a little less.
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basically my life. 232 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
Yes, but you posted a cry for help on a website, not so anonymously. We are all trying to reach out to you in our own ways of support and give advice with the best intentions. You can take it or leave it as is. However, if you are truly struggling and feel that you cannot go to your mother (I'm sorry that you have such a negative relationship with her and feel this way, I hope that things can change for the better for both of you one day), then there ARE other places to go for help. It doesn't have to be a counselor. You can call a help line. If you are 18, you can go to a hospital for additional information. If you want to get better, then take the step to reach out to someone. Please, please do that. Trust me, you don't want to stew in these feelings. It is so difficult, it is, but that step to go get help is so very important. It saved my life. I wanted to kill myself so many times, and now...now I'm really glad I didn't. It would have been a terrible thing to do so.
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When I see 20 year old girls get married after 1 year relationship 20 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
My husband asked me to marry him after 8 months. I mean, our engagement lasted another year yet, but still...I think we're okay. I also think that when people get married, there needs to be a respect for said marriage, and I think that sometimes gets lost nowadays. However, if a couple is happy, what does it matter how long they knew/didn't know each other before tying the knot?
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basically my life. 232 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
Your mother loves you, this is true. Doesn't always feel that way, especially when they're crabby and short with you. I used to be a cutter, and I still deal with that itch, especially when my depression strikes, it's a terrible feeling. I showed my mother in high school, and while it wasn't handled the best, it still needed to be done. It showed her that I was not perfect (straight A's, in sports, drama, all-around good kid), and that my anxiety was worse than I let on. If my child, heaven forbid, were to be struck with the same illness, I hope that she would want to confide in me. Even if I cannot help, I'd try to find her whatever help possible, whether it be with counseling, appropriate medication, or even the saving of religion. Do me a favor, tell your mother about it, to an extent. Tell her that you're having a really hard time, and you're trying to be positive, but maybe she could take you to a counselor or a doctor? There's plenty of free options if money is an issue.
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Future grandpas 16 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
I think the bigger problem is that this is not an old man, but a hipster trying to act like a gilf
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Harold playing cards 14 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
Harold: Listen here, you stupid bitch. There are no other games. Only Duel Monsters. Get on my level.
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my kind of squad 2 comments
How ironic 52 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
But what about....signing a release waiver of privacy before a surgery, and people can buy tickets to your operation, and those funds go towards paying for your operation?! :P
Sorry, I need to go get coffee.
Sorry, I need to go get coffee.
Yes, everyone should be watching the new Muppets show 7 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
I think it's great they got a new one going. For people protesting it's not like the old Muppets, buy the DVDs and let your kid watch the old show. My kid loves the old school Muppets, but she also enjoyed the newer movies. Win-win.
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The simplest workout for your entire body 20 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
I can barely roll out of bed in the mornings. No thanks, the blankets have consumed me. I am one of them now.
There are 2 types of girls during Halloween 9 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
They are both wrong in that their hair does not match the character's. IT'S A WIG FERCRISSAKE.
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When you have a gamer boyfriend 2 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
Hey now, I'm training to be the very best. No time for those pesky distractions. Seriously though, this happened last night. We were debating on where to go for supper and I started a Smite match. He's just like, "I thought you were hungry?" "I am. But if we're deciding, I have time to do this."
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Suppose two swallows carried it together 15 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
SOLDIER: Are you suggesting coconuts migrate?
ARTHUR: Not at all. They could be carried.
SOLDIER: What? A swallow carrying a coconut?
ARTHUR: Why not?
SOLDIER: I'll tell you why not ... because a swallow is about eight inches long and weighs five ounces, and you'd be lucky to find a coconut under a pound.
ARTHUR: It could grip it by the husk ...
SOLDIER: It's not a question of where he grips it, It's a simple matter of weight - ratios ... A five-ounce bird could not hold a one pound coconut.
^^ This movie was my childhood
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ARTHUR: Not at all. They could be carried.
SOLDIER: What? A swallow carrying a coconut?
ARTHUR: Why not?
SOLDIER: I'll tell you why not ... because a swallow is about eight inches long and weighs five ounces, and you'd be lucky to find a coconut under a pound.
ARTHUR: It could grip it by the husk ...
SOLDIER: It's not a question of where he grips it, It's a simple matter of weight - ratios ... A five-ounce bird could not hold a one pound coconut.
^^ This movie was my childhood
When my boss fires me and doesn't tell me 6 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
North Dakota is an at-will state, so without a contract, you can quit or be fired on the spot. It's not very professional, but it's totally legal.
That's a Lot of Dye 23 comments
sealeena
· 9 years ago
No, please think about this. We say then, because she is referring to a period of time, the hair dye eventually wearing off. Then is usually used as an adverb to convey a consequence, subsequently, or afterwards. When we use than, we are referring to a comparison, like: I would rather have pancake than waffles. See, we are comparing pancakes to waffles, therefore we use the term than. So, the guest was correct in their use of then.
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