Somebody used it! 3 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
Theoretically using something that fits snuggly with like a rubber seal would work, as long as it wasn't too snug.
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Sauceyy 14 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
That does not make it the other person's fault. And playing the blame game is not going to help you move forward anyway.
The fact is, anytime a relationship goes badly two people were involved. And in most cases, both parties did things that were unkind and/or unfair. Should you blame yourself of your significant other cheats on you? No, absolutely not. Their actions, their fault. Should you take a look at what you did poorly and how you can be better in the future? Yes, absolutely.
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The fact is, anytime a relationship goes badly two people were involved. And in most cases, both parties did things that were unkind and/or unfair. Should you blame yourself of your significant other cheats on you? No, absolutely not. Their actions, their fault. Should you take a look at what you did poorly and how you can be better in the future? Yes, absolutely.
Sauceyy 14 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
I agree that the person who did the cheating is 100% responsible for their own actions.
However infidelity =/= abuse. Cheating on someone may go hand and hand with abuse in some instances. And it is very possible that this is more common than I have reason to believe, I am not an expert on the subject, however saying that infidelity is abuse undermines abuse.
Let me be perfectly clear here: Victims of abuse should not stay with their abuser, nor should anyone tolerate abuse.
The fact is, people make bad decisions and people can change.
Moreover even if you find yourself saying "My significant other was unloyal to me sexually and am not willing to forgive this" Which, like, fair. Really fair. There still were reasons for the incident and in a vast majority of circumstances this is not a one sided ordeal. Is the cheater responsible for their actions, 100%. Did the other person make decisions that affected the circumstance in which this action was taken? Yeah, probably.
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However infidelity =/= abuse. Cheating on someone may go hand and hand with abuse in some instances. And it is very possible that this is more common than I have reason to believe, I am not an expert on the subject, however saying that infidelity is abuse undermines abuse.
Let me be perfectly clear here: Victims of abuse should not stay with their abuser, nor should anyone tolerate abuse.
The fact is, people make bad decisions and people can change.
Moreover even if you find yourself saying "My significant other was unloyal to me sexually and am not willing to forgive this" Which, like, fair. Really fair. There still were reasons for the incident and in a vast majority of circumstances this is not a one sided ordeal. Is the cheater responsible for their actions, 100%. Did the other person make decisions that affected the circumstance in which this action was taken? Yeah, probably.
What did the 5 fingers say to the face? 10 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
They would fade. And the things you said very publicly would show up on you in public places, but the more private things would be in less public locations. Things you said repeatedly would be bold, while the words that were said only once would fade quickly
Sauceyy 14 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
Cheating is not an okay thing to do, and no one should tolerate others cheating on them due to the belief they are not good enough not to be cheated on. And that is the heart of the agrugement being made here.
That being said, cheating is not something that happens for no reason, and examining the reasons for infidelity is a good idea whenever it happens. Sometimes working though an instance of cheating can lead to a better relationship with a person you already love. Sometimes it is best to end the relationship and move forward. Either way, knowing why the cheating took place is good for the sake of having healthy productive relationships in the future.
Often there is more than one factor as to why someone cheats, and it can be complicated to evaluate, especially objectively. But it is rarely purely one sided. Again, cheating is not okay and the person doing it should absolutely be held accountable for as much, but that doesn't make the other person innocent of wrongdoing.
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That being said, cheating is not something that happens for no reason, and examining the reasons for infidelity is a good idea whenever it happens. Sometimes working though an instance of cheating can lead to a better relationship with a person you already love. Sometimes it is best to end the relationship and move forward. Either way, knowing why the cheating took place is good for the sake of having healthy productive relationships in the future.
Often there is more than one factor as to why someone cheats, and it can be complicated to evaluate, especially objectively. But it is rarely purely one sided. Again, cheating is not okay and the person doing it should absolutely be held accountable for as much, but that doesn't make the other person innocent of wrongdoing.
Grimreaper dared me to, so blame him. 28 comments
A different kind of buzz 1 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
Sure, this is funny now, but how stupid will it look when your hairline recedes further and its no longer on your hairline?
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That is become my life problem too 4 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
It's hard, but keeping a consistent sleep schedule, eating well, and getting exercise all help.you be healthier, which has a positive impact on your mental health. And sleeping at night and getting up with the sun helps you sleep better and wake up easier. And getting better quality sleep is also good for you.
Again, it's hard. And sometimes exceptions have to be made. I work 2nd shift, so maintaining an early sleep and rise time isn't really feasible. And I can't change my hours right now, I can't even get away from working 1st shift sometimes, which makes my sleeping even harder to maintain. And maybe I should look for a job with better hours, but at this point I'm doing the best I can.
The point I'm making is, well all is good advice, don't get discouraged if you can't do all those things. Do what you can to make yourself healthier, and seek professional assistance if you're feeling depressed.
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Again, it's hard. And sometimes exceptions have to be made. I work 2nd shift, so maintaining an early sleep and rise time isn't really feasible. And I can't change my hours right now, I can't even get away from working 1st shift sometimes, which makes my sleeping even harder to maintain. And maybe I should look for a job with better hours, but at this point I'm doing the best I can.
The point I'm making is, well all is good advice, don't get discouraged if you can't do all those things. Do what you can to make yourself healthier, and seek professional assistance if you're feeling depressed.
That question tho 5 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
Often if something arrives broken Amazon will replace it if you file a report with them. If Amazon is not the seller and the seller does no replace it Amazon will give you back a credit worth the amount you paid.
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Moral !! 2 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
Except condoms are not 100% effective, even when worn correctly and no breakage occurs.
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Spotted painful nonchalant Trout 16 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
Also, in America is is frowned upon to talk about what you make, and in many jobs it is against company policy. Which means finding out your male co worker makes more than you and bringing it to HR could get you fired. Many women can't fight the system in any meaningful way because working within the system, regardless of its discrimination, is how you pay the bills.
Spotted painful nonchalant Trout 16 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
Some of the pay gap is caused by that, but the problem is companies have found ways to legalize discrimination. They simply give evaluation based raises, and then evaluate men higher than women for the exact same work. And usually there is no means for legal recourse.
Also, men are statistically far more likely to get promotions when compared to women of the same qualifications. Part of this is actually that promotions tend go be handed out by bosses to people who have worked closely with them and men (who have the boss positions far more often) regularly feel uncomfortable working closely with women. Often out of fear of sexual harassment allegations.
It's a problem with no clear and easy solution, but it is not a problem that is caused primarily by women choosing worse paying jobs.
Also, men are statistically far more likely to get promotions when compared to women of the same qualifications. Part of this is actually that promotions tend go be handed out by bosses to people who have worked closely with them and men (who have the boss positions far more often) regularly feel uncomfortable working closely with women. Often out of fear of sexual harassment allegations.
It's a problem with no clear and easy solution, but it is not a problem that is caused primarily by women choosing worse paying jobs.
Well played 3 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
The only couple I've ever know to use location sharing to see where each other is at used it for safety. He was more reclusive and she was very outgoing. He had her location so that if she were to not come home one night, he would know where to go looking for her.
I don't think that sharing locations is necessarily a bad thing, however I don't think that controlling someone else's choices is health either.
In a healthy relationship she should be able to say "I am not going to spend more time at the gym." And he should not try to force her.
I don't know who is worse from the information we have. On the one hand, I have seen people be dishonest with a boyfriend or girlfriend because it was unsafe to tell then the truth. And requiring her to share her location may be a symptom of that. However I have also seen people lie because they have a problem being honest with anyone. And if that's the case she really needs to seek some therapy as that is very unhealthy.
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I don't think that sharing locations is necessarily a bad thing, however I don't think that controlling someone else's choices is health either.
In a healthy relationship she should be able to say "I am not going to spend more time at the gym." And he should not try to force her.
I don't know who is worse from the information we have. On the one hand, I have seen people be dishonest with a boyfriend or girlfriend because it was unsafe to tell then the truth. And requiring her to share her location may be a symptom of that. However I have also seen people lie because they have a problem being honest with anyone. And if that's the case she really needs to seek some therapy as that is very unhealthy.
Spotted painful nonchalant Trout 16 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
Actually, there is a documented difference between the pay rate of men and women working the same job, with the same years of experience, working the same hours. A boss is more likely to give the highest possible raise to a man than a woman, and over time this causes the gap to widen. Especially for percentage biased raises.
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Disney oil painting masterpieces 8 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
I actually think the formal dress with her sword was chosen on purpose. Part of Mulan's character is her conflict between what is formal and expected and will bring her family honor, and what is brave and strong and important to protecting her family and her country. And Mulan believes both things are important. It makes sense to capture her in a way that symbolizes the two parts of her life so distinctly.
I freaked out 9 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
It depends on what the pin is for. Some pins are restricted to 4 digits, some are not.
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Social media life 15 comments
Social media life 15 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
"A mother should have the right to terminate the pregnancy at her discretion for a majority of the pregnancy" tend to be pro-choice.
Anything that falls in between on the spectrum results in discrepancy on which viewpoint they identify with. The fact is, there are more than two viewpoints and its difficult to shove everyone's views into these boxes.
Unfortunately because we have created a system of politics where only two parties will ever have a chance at most offices, we have an overwhelming pressure to conform our opinions to that of said parties.
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Anything that falls in between on the spectrum results in discrepancy on which viewpoint they identify with. The fact is, there are more than two viewpoints and its difficult to shove everyone's views into these boxes.
Unfortunately because we have created a system of politics where only two parties will ever have a chance at most offices, we have an overwhelming pressure to conform our opinions to that of said parties.
Social media life 15 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
I did not mean to imply that, but I see looking back how it would. The fact is, there aren't just two stances on abortion. We often boil the agrugement down to just two stances, but there are many who believe things like "A woman should be able to terminate the pregnancy only if her life is threatened by the pregnancy " or "A woman should have the choice to terminate the pregnancy only in the first six weeks". A majority of people are not extremists. An extreme anti-abortion viewpoint would be "Abortion should never be performed under any circumstances, including circumstances where both mother and child are not going to survive the pregnancy." An extreme pro-choice viewpoint would be "A woman should have the right to terminate a pregnancy for any reason, including gender of child, at any point during pregnancy, including during the labor process."
People who believe "Most abortions should not be allowed" tend to be anti-abortion. People who believe...
People who believe "Most abortions should not be allowed" tend to be anti-abortion. People who believe...
Social media life 15 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
The two have nothing to do with each other. Most people who are anti-abortion believe that the unborn child is a person with a right to live. Not necessarily that there should be more children in the world, or than sex should happen for the purpose of having children. Many people believe abortion is wrong, but preventing unwanted pregnancies is responsible and should be done.
Also, the above person is pro-choice, which is the opposite of anti-abortion. People who are pro-choice believe that a woman should have the right to terminate a pregnancy when she does not want the child or would suffer health risks for carrying the child to term.
People who are pro-LGBT believe that people should be allowed to choose their gender and sexual/romantic partners without discrimination. Most pro-LGBT individuals support same sex marriage. All peo-LGBT individuals support that LGBT individuals should be allowed to function in society without faving discrimination (ei.Can get a job, no hate crimes)
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Also, the above person is pro-choice, which is the opposite of anti-abortion. People who are pro-choice believe that a woman should have the right to terminate a pregnancy when she does not want the child or would suffer health risks for carrying the child to term.
People who are pro-LGBT believe that people should be allowed to choose their gender and sexual/romantic partners without discrimination. Most pro-LGBT individuals support same sex marriage. All peo-LGBT individuals support that LGBT individuals should be allowed to function in society without faving discrimination (ei.Can get a job, no hate crimes)
Maybe then my memes would look better! 8 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
There are plenty of free meme makers/photo editors online. Available for both PC or mobile. I know it's an extra step, but it's really not that much extra work
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I hate racism 10 comments
What a legend 10 comments
thekaylapup
· 5 years ago
We only had 4 minutes, but that was enough. I assume you went to a larger school.