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Yes people fight in relationships, but in any HEALTHY relationship this doesn't happen. My whole argument is my complete and utter disbelief that something of this nature could become so mind-numbingly popular. If you click the link above and see #2 she clearly states "NO". If you were invloved intimately with a man and began to feel uncomfortable and expressed that...but he didnt stop because he was "in love" that makes it ok?
In regards to the porn statement, i know PLENTY of women who watch porn. Except for certain and completely fucked up genres, it is between consenting adult(s). Not with someone against their will and wishes.
If you as a consenting adult, approve of the behavior exhibited in the book and enjoy its content that is your right. I simply dont understand it as gentleman.

I honestly don't believe you in that regard. Here is an example of what im speaking about: http://www.upworthy.com/6-real-quotes-from-fifty-shades-that-could-make-you-rethink-how-you-feel-about-it
This is NOT a loving relationship. This is physical and mental abuse. This is NOT love.
"But but but you don't understand, he had a rough up bringing and wasnt loved"
I spit on that bullshit excuse. It is a mentally and physically demeaning relationship and in no way should that be misconstrued as love.

So if an attractive guy who lived in a trailer and worked at McDonalds did this to a woman it would have the same erotic appeal?

I'm an adult male and don't understand how any self respecting female could think that book is anything other than rape fantasy. What makes it ok? That he is incredibly wealthy? They literally have a website where you can guess a quote from either the rapist in the books or a serial killer.

If the Japanese hadn't forced the US into WW2 the allied forces were fucked.

And the French would all be speaking German if it wasn't for our help.

Want some more history? The last time the French won a war was against itself.

Since at least Vietnam, the enemy combatants have given grenades to children with the instructions to walk into a pack of grunts and pull the pin.