catfluff
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Irritating hypnotic primal 1 comments
catfluff
· 6 hours ago
Proper communication doesn't work like that. The fact that he is seen as bitchin', & the fact that they consider that a reason to be cheated on, shows immaturity from all sides.
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Both parties should be able to maturely state their grievances, attempt to understand their partner's viewpoint & where they come from (and while their point might not always seem valid or true, their feelings about it are still real), try and talk it out & find solutions or compensations where you can meet each other in the middle.
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If things are truly incompatible, break up with your partner rather than cheating.
Cheating just fills one gap in your current relationship. If you are unwilling to break up to be with the other person, either due to
(1) being comfortable in your relationship, or
(2) other benefits, or
(3) this is the only gap and you like your partner otherwise,
then you need to reassess your situation and find an overall more compatible partner, or work on your relationship / yourself.
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Both parties should be able to maturely state their grievances, attempt to understand their partner's viewpoint & where they come from (and while their point might not always seem valid or true, their feelings about it are still real), try and talk it out & find solutions or compensations where you can meet each other in the middle.
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If things are truly incompatible, break up with your partner rather than cheating.
Cheating just fills one gap in your current relationship. If you are unwilling to break up to be with the other person, either due to
(1) being comfortable in your relationship, or
(2) other benefits, or
(3) this is the only gap and you like your partner otherwise,
then you need to reassess your situation and find an overall more compatible partner, or work on your relationship / yourself.
Ming-Na Wen, 1998 vs 2020 2 comments
catfluff
· 6 hours ago
Idk who she is but she looks like she hasn't aged a day. All I can say is that I think her 2020 makeup suits her a little better though?
It's the meme that keeps on giving. 2 comments
An honest question regarding recent threads 1 comments
Memorial Locust 1 comments
Do people have some weird hive instinct? 3 comments
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So essentially, convincing someone that the truth they are speaking is actually a lie, by lying to them and others, whilst perpetuating the behaviour toward them that they are speaking out against, to the point where they don't even know if they can trust themselves anymore, and whether the thing that happens to them is even real or if they are just imaging it.
For example, person A is bullying person B and stealing their stuff, then person A makes person B and everyone else believe that that they would NEVER do such a thing, that it is all misunderstood, that person B is just making things up and being a mean person towards person A.