So I've been talking to this guy who I knew existed but never really talked to because we weren't in the same friend group or anything and I'm starting to really like him! The problem is is that we're both shy (especially him because he's only started to let go of himself this year) and I usually rely on the other person to lead the conversation. I really like him and I wanna get to know him better, it's just that I plan what I'm going to say in my head and then when it comes to it, I get really flustered because of how cute and adorable he is and I don't know what to do!
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fandomprincess · 7 comments
6 years ago
r0xanne4444
· 6 years ago
Aw hunni. I feel you. If he’s shy that might mean he’s ok with comfortable silence so sometimes just not talking can be good. But try and talk about anything. Make a list of thinks that are relevant to both of you that are good conversation topics. If you can’t memorize it that’s fine you can always check your phone. If you can’t think of any good things to talk about in the moment just look around and comment about things. Like how cute some girls dress is or whatever. Or how so and so seems to be cuddling up to so and so and how cute of a couple they would be. Or how the school decided to change a thing in the halls. I don’t know. Random shit and gossip. Talk about a funny thing that happened in a class. Or something someone said. Oh and important. Don’t talk about you all the time. Ask him questions too. Abouthow his day was and how he’s handling certain classes. Grades are always good topics. Teachers too.
And that’s my experience hope that helps!
And that’s my experience hope that helps!
ajhedges
· 6 years ago
I’m pretty shy and usually okay with silence. I think if you just ask a few questions about him and you are genuinely interested in a response he’ll notice your interest and maybe the conversation can unfold. I feel like everytime I try to plan a conversation it never works
amadog19
· 6 years ago
Ask some questions! Ask him what his favorite type of music is, favorite movie, favorite show, favorite book, if he has any pets, and then maybe a conversation will spring from that! Good luck op.
chakun
· 6 years ago
Just hang out with him, he'll appreciate your company.
ajhedges
· 6 years ago
Yes good luck let us know how it goes
fandomprincess
· 6 years ago
Aw thank you guys for the great advice! The thing is is that he gives really straightfoward responses so it's hard for me to kind of play off of it.
kouyaaotsuki
· 6 years ago
Share memes with each other