Nope, people are freaky like that.

Depends did you want to be kissed

^ true

Yes, I just didn’t expect the intensity (I guess I just expected a simple kiss and thought that’s how all kisses start and then they can escalate) and was weirded out. So I just wondered if maybe a kiss with tongue is more normal than I thought.

Totally depends on the person - I had first kisses with and without.
Most important: except for weird, did it feel good for you?

I wouldn't know. It would be my first overall, not just between the 2 of us.

Drunk people are more likely to go all in straight away but if they're sober they might just be like that. Like everyone's said it totally depends on the person but personally it wouldn't weird me out. I would like a softer kiss as a first kiss but some people just go "PASSION TIME" and that's just how they roll.

To be honest it wasn’t like it felt good or bad... I just couldn’t get the hang of the kiss (if that makes any sense) it just felt awkward but my heart was racing and in a way it wasn’t bad. I’m sorry if this isn’t making much sense.

It depends on what the situation was leading up to the kiss. If you were surprised by the tongue then there probably wasn't anything to suggest it would be that intense and it's perfectly okay to feel weird in that situation. If you want to kiss that person again, something I've found to be useful and cute/romantic is to "teach" them how you want to be kissed. Like "Last time was great, but I prefer to be kissed like this…" And that gives you an excuse to make them practice.

Thank you for your comments. I feel better and reassured. You really helped.

Yeah I agree with Uni, it's best to gently tell them how you would like it next time. Hopefully you feel better if you kiss this person again, don't feel bad if it felt weird the first time. Kissing is weird anyway, especially when the other person goes all Gun's A Blazing on you, I don't blame you not knowing how to react hahah

I usually try to keep the intensity down at first, and let the energy build if it does. Sometimes kissing partners will start quick, and sometimes I don't mind, but then sometimes I do. There's no exact science, it's just something that goes the way it goes. like the others said, talking it out afterwards is the best way to go. In any situation, communication is key, whether relationship related or not.