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deleted · 5 years ago
100% for sure.
jasonmon · 5 years ago
I think people can be perfect for each other for several chapters in life. It takes a little more effort to grow and change together over the long haul. The most successful relationships are the ones where you both decide you're on the same team no matter what and you have each other's backs.
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If you are interested in learning all about people and long term relationships, you should read Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari. It's hilarious because Aziz is amazing, but it is eye-opening because you'll see even sociologists have no f-ing idea what to say about recent developments. Women have the option of a new phase in life called "emerging adulthood" which has literally never been an option in all of human history until the 1960s. That's been having a profound impact on some people for being in long, committed relationships.
unicycle · 5 years ago
Not sure if I believe in soul mates, but I do think my husband is a perfect match for me in temperament and we work together to make up the rest. I think the universe gives you the people that you need at that point in your life and you can learn a lot from any relationship.
pewpawpow · 5 years ago
I've dated countless women, and never feel really happy, nor able to stay happy. Then i met my wife, and now, i will kill myself if i ever lost her, and she felt the same, and everyone around us envy us. So, yeah, she is my soulmate.
coleypoley · 5 years ago
Definitely. I didn't believe in them before but it is true that when it's right you just know.
the_grinch · 5 years ago
I'm 100% sure. Went through a lot of crazy bitches to find this one
deleted · 5 years ago
I'm 200% sure
guest_ · 5 years ago
I’d like to first say it’s seldom o don’t agree with @jasonmon- but even when I do (this isn’t one of those times,) I never am disappointed by the intellect or spirit put into things. Another sage answer sir. And with that out of the way, my reply to op is forthcoming.
dr_richard_ew · 5 years ago
96004% sure shes my soulmate
maebubbles · 5 years ago
Yes I am. We finish each other’s sandwiches.
guest_ · 5 years ago
I don’t care. I prefer to love a person for who they are and not who I want them to be or imagine them to be. Wether they are or are not my soulmate doesn’t factor in to things so long as we are happy. We will grow, things will change, that growth will bring us closer or move us farther apart. If we never seperate- I lived a happy life with someone I loved. What does it matter if they were or weren’t my soul mate? If we ever seperate, it will suck. It will not be the last time I am happy in my life, and I will find someone new. They will be different, but I won’t compare them to each other. Each person is unique, each relationship unique. In life I find many things are best taken as they are. You’ll often find that on their own merits we would be very happy with a thing, but through comparisons and labels and what if games we can take a wonderful thing and ruin it for ourselves. Enjoy what it is while it lasts.
jasonmon · 5 years ago
Likewise, @guest_. I enjoy most people on this site but I can definitely appreciate a well-articulated, wise insight and it seems like you have a ton of those, so thank you for putting in the effort to share them! :)
typow777 · 5 years ago
100% sure
fire_is_hot · 5 years ago
Yep, 100% sure
metaanalysis · 5 years ago
Yes. 100%. It didn't feel real at the time when we met-more like one of those cliched fictional romances from a romcom; I kept waiting for the other shoe to drop. Little by little, I came to realize it was the real deal. Now still going strong 12 years later. However, I also believe that soul mate or not, it takes committment, compassion, and a lot of hard work. Especially after the little "oh that's a cute little habit" becomes "what the F°°k is wrong with her!?,"when the whole falling in love/lust turns into a deeper love that also includes all the mundane things that come with sharing a life with someone.
rosalinas · 5 years ago
My cousin is my soul mate so I have to stay single for my whole life waiting for death so I can be with her in my next life
cotten_eyed_joe · 5 years ago
yes
internet · 5 years ago
@rosalinas just move to Alabama
the_grinch · 5 years ago
Omg lol
tbag2win · 5 years ago
I'm still filtering through the crazy bitches.