blazingfrags · 3 years ago
Okay so I stayed at my maternal aunts place for 2-3 months because my school was in different city and my aunt's place was in that city, now some back story my aunt is always the one who does fights and stuff and that too a lot and also I eat a lot..like we Indians normally eat 2-3 rotis(tortilla) with curry and I eat like 5( only two more) which is not a lot but still extreme for my masi
blazingfrags · 3 years ago
Masi means aunt...my bad
blazingfrags · 3 years ago
Okay so after those months I shifted in that city with my mom and my parents were treating me like badly so I thought something was off and after asking for like so long they told me my aunt told them that her husband saw me watching porn in my phone and that is why my mum shifted cause of embarrassment
blazingfrags · 3 years ago
Now today my maternal uncle and granny(mum's side) fought with that aunt and my granny was crying so I was consoling her and she told me that my aunt told everyone that I was caught watching porn (which I didn't btw I take precautions and stuff and it was me who told my masi someone tried to unlock my phone but didn't get the password so they couldn't find anything)
blazingfrags · 3 years ago
And that my aunt said these bad things about me to my whole family because I ate two more rotis and she wanted me to go away even tho she was the one who first asked me parents to let me live there
blazingfrags · 3 years ago
And some of my family has been treating me like I'm a rapist and I thought they did that because I failed in an examination earlier....this sucks man....
guest_ · 3 years ago
I’m sorry frags. I wish I could offer you some sort of advice or perspective that was contextual to your culture- but I could only speak from the view of my own culture and.... they are very different and I don’t know that would be helpful to you at all. All I can say is that I am sorry you are having to go through this. I’m sorry your aunt is being so petty. I’m sorry your family is not seeming to be interested in believing your innocence, and sorry that they’d even be so upset of you were watching porn.
guest_ · 3 years ago
I don’t know that the damage done can be undone but I suspect that if you can ride things out they should at least get better. I don’t know your age or situation to say anything about getting out of the house- and I know family is a more central part of certain cultures and more essential in things like success so I can’t just say “fuck em then. Leave.” But hang in there. I believe you over your aunt here- and even if otherwise I wouldn’t say what you are accused of is so wrong. Things tend to work out, or can be hard waiting on them to work out- but in time they usually do. Keep your chin up frags. Even if they don’t know it- you know it. We know it. You have nothing to be ashamed of and nothing they should be ashamed of.
blazingfrags · 3 years ago
@guest my family is orthodox some(like my aunt) is also racist af and even me having a girlfriend is like I'm a delinquent for them, I'm a guy and I was not allowed to wear knee length shorts at my aunt's place so you can get the idea...
blazingfrags · 3 years ago
I'm 18 and honestly im just thinking about leaving but I can't with the means I have. But I've been confused and depressed just cause of this..altho thanks @guest