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Pretty much 8 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
So...a choice works well for some groups, but not for your particular one. And it bothers you. HMMMMMMMM!!!!
In this case, it’s color choice of letters and total inconsequential to your life. However, in actual real life, such a thing (neutral choice results in negative effect) is called disparate IMPACT. This is as opposed to disparate TREATMENT (deliberate choice to create a negative effect). Still negatively affects a group.
Now imagine in your actual life people are always jumping up and insisting you’re “imagining” disparate impact/treatment, it’s not “that bad”, and/or accuse you of rabble rousing.
Then take a whole stadium of seats and be quiet about a self-manufactured slight, and this metaphorical nonsense. Being a fake underdog just gives you fake outrage and destroys empathy. Which sure is convenient if you want to feel good while not doing anything to make the world better. In fact, it gives you a great excuse not to care about anyone but yourself.
We are still doing this right? 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
No, there was going to be a festival nearby but it got cancelled. So apparently this means the raid was also cancelled.
This is so sad 7 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
My brain is too old for this meme format. I did okay last time, but this round is too much already.
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Agreed 19 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Oh! Oops. I know a lady who does spell her name like that and it took me a while to remember. I guess now I’ve learned it too well, lol.
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Agreed 19 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
No, I get that. And I’m here for it!! It’s the name of the sculpture.
Yeah, this is big brain time 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
But that’s only solves 75% of your problems.
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Best in bed goes to 7 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
*boy
Agreed 19 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Of all the stories, why is this Medusa? Why not Athena, Afrodite, Hera? Any female really except the lady who was gifted (by a goddess) a defense system after being assaulted in a temple.
Made a donation to UNICEF for Christmas under a silly name. Turns out UNICEF respect 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Yes! AND you might make a tax person smile, if your file is pulled for review.
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It's really sad 4 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Tangent: This picture really hit me. In the context of parent to child, the parent tries so, so hard not to injure their child with their issues and illness, but it’s just there. All the time. Try so hard to scrub it off and keep it to yourself, but it is there.
The kid doesn’t know it’s not healthy or not neurotypical - the crying, the obsessive behaviors, the messiness; it’s just their life. They innocently mirror. All you can do as a parent is try your best; love the kid like crazy, and handle things as well as you can and seek resources. It will be enough. It will be more than enough. Don’t give up.
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Does it autosend too ? 12 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Preach! Gotcha, sorry, np, no stress
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Ok what the shit? 12 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
That - is an upsetting mental image. (I also briefly struggled and failed to figure out any version of the last sentence that isn’t a disaster in logic.) I assume the ad is for the therapy services we all need now? Jeez. Okay, thank you; good wishes that your internet wanderings bring you to less stressful sites in the future.
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Ok what the shit? 12 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
It’s not “cheating” if it’s known. There’s no subterfuge. This individual is just in a one-sided monogamous relationship for some reason. I’m sure there’s a name for it? They’re not exactly poly; I don’t know. *I* wouldn’t enter such a relationship. I’m one-at-a-time type of person and need my partner’s full focus. But he’s not getting cheated on and he’s not a cuckold in the strict historical sense. She’s definitely not seeing this other person without his knowledge.
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Does it autosend too ? 12 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
I meant it’s set up; all typos are possible but the reaction and subsequent is not how people do. It’s one of those pretend text exchanges. I was just acknowledging the joke by using a standard hashtag to note it.
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Somebody take her snacks 5 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
This looks like a butler, not a maid. Should be a guy
Does it autosend too ? 12 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
#stuffthatneverhappened
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What do you like and dislike. About your BF/GF? 8 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
I know it’s just the picture to go with the discussion question, but I like the idea that the cat is asking. Because that’s what we do, talk over things with our pets. They just listen attentively because you are their friend, and also you might give them brushing or treats. It’s very soothing.
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Very slick 4 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Stop stalking that poor girl. There are a million pharmacies. Please don’t use the fact that she has to work as a reason to force her to interact with you.
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Happens all the time 1 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
I don’t get it?
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Tell them 10 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
I was going to say that people who get made fun of for their passions or when they get excited tend *not* to share, so maybe the issue is she doesn’t trust romantic partners enough to let her guard down. But @guest said so much better things in such a better way, I got nothing.
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It's the thought that counts 13 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Also. I’ve been hanging out here specifically for years and on earth for even longer. Long enough to know that reality isn’t something that happens to me. I’m not a rock or a tree. I’m a human and I choose. I found your comment annoying, unnecessary and out of place and I said so. You didn’t like it and you said so. THAT’S how it works and it’s the opposite of something you need to “welcome” anyone to. Weirdo, that’s the whole human thing in a nutshell, although I could be nicer or quieter considering all the good role models I’m ignoring right now to twit you back.
It's the thought that counts 13 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Nope. This is an entirely self created landscape, buddy. What you want it to be is the same valid as what I want it to be. Your complaints that I should accept what you want this sandbox to be are exactly the same as the complaint I’m making. Deal with it.
It's the thought that counts 13 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
This may have to do with how Americans think about money, too. This is *my* dollar. Yes, the government made it and it “belongs” to them. But it’s MY dollar. We don’t write on money, like, I don’t. Most people don’t. But I’m not holding it in sacred trust for the government and I better not mess it up or I deserve jail. If they’re going to be like that, they shoulda made it out of steel! No one is writing on quarters, are they? This is my money, I accepted it at money, and I’ll pass it along as money. I’m not counterfeiting, I’m not disturbing the peace or being hateful. It’s not a library book. Just sometimes money had writing on it. Sometimes money has tears in it, too! You gonna prosecute for that, huh??? AND cocaine residue, which is not me either. Plus, I didn’t deface it; i got it this way. You can’t prove otherwise.
So this is how at least this American feels about it.
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It's the thought that counts 13 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Plus if you deface it to where it’s not usable, then you’ve converted money into paper. That’s realistically a problem for you and no one else, since when you got it, it WAS money but now nobody will take it and you personally have lost the value of the bill.
If you can get it back into the system as money, it’s because someone else accepted it as still legal tender. As long as it’s fairly benign, it will stay in circulation until it makes it to a bank. Bank can cull and exchange for new, so it will then disappear into a furnace. It ultimately is just paper, so our creative species (at least in the US) just accepts that any type of printed flat thing is just sometimes going to get written on.
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It's the thought that counts 13 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
1. How could they prove it was a particular person? It leaves the bank that got it from the mint and there’s plausible deniability right away.
2. Not worth prosecuting. It’s still usable. It would have to be bad enough graffiti on a sufficiently high enough number of bills to justify a prosecution attempt; it would kinda have to be a problem enough that government would be willing to remove from circulation. Plus you’d have to get federal to take on the prosecution, not local or state.
We actually had a huge project in the US a few years ago where someone stamped bills with a website address to log where the dollar was going. If it was a problem, that person would have been in trouble.
Maybe because “legal tender” has a wide latitude? As long as a reasonable adult can tell it’s money and it’s slightly more than half the bill, it’s still pretty usable at businesses and banks. It can be crumpled, missing corners, faded, written on, taped back together; they’d still take it.
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