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deviledapple
· 9 years ago
not being able to talk about something is different than this. these discussions are not with close groups of friends, and that's the only scenario you would even consider talking about something so personal, just like a person who had an abortion would rarely speak of it on random message boards, its not that you need help coping, its simply a deeply personal event. and frankly if either party, male or female, was subject to unwanted intercourse while drunk, its rape. this drunk shit is just another farce, the situation that most commonly occurs is the same as drugging, person A wants to sleep with person B knows they won't do it willingly so gets them drunk to be more compliant, or more passed out, and has sex with them. im sick to shit of acting like every time people had drunk sex it was just immature girls trying not to
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Albino creatures are the best 11 comments
What grinds my gears 24 comments
Sorry folks 11 comments
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deviledapple
· 9 years ago
women use other peoples cases because talking about our own rapes is uncomfortable and uncouth, and it is easier to talk about what happened to someone else matter-of-factly. the sheer number of women who have been raped in their lifetimes speaks to fact that rape culture is not some buzzword we simply pulled out of thin air. it does not mean we live in a culture where all men go along raping, it means we live in a culture where the victim is shamed, where excuses are made, and where situations are excuses and punishments rarely fit the crime.
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Some people are offended by the term 'Black Friday' saying it's racist 30 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
secondary meaning assigned to term to make it more friendly. the police thing is more correct. http://www.snopes.com/holidays/thanksgiving/blackfriday.asp
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Man stops dolphin attack with one hand! 15 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
the person who thinks the title is whats actually happening here deserves to be deceived.
Hello, I'm diabetes and this is jackass 8 comments
she looks so proud 23 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
i think the fact she is a woman plays into the sentence... one of the side effects of regarding women as less than men is that they are also thought of as harmless which makes even the real crimes seem silly to lock them away for long, because shes "harmless"
Shots fired 25 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
and just like the apple/fruit, you're not smoking the whole plant, just a specific part of it, pretty much the equivalent of the fruit...
L - for logic 14 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
which means cold. its like the same thing just with more language steps. they call it cold cuz it gets cold.
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the last comment! 75 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
its a pretty basic fact that emotional attraction to a person brings physical attraction. when someone is likable you just find them more attractive, it even works with friends - you think they are better looking people than they are simply because you find them good people. physical attraction to a type plays a role but if you're put off by arm hair you move on not ask the person to change their arm hair. but sexual attraction IS important in the vast majority of relationships, the typical average healthy person needs physical attraction to have a healthy relationship, but your brain is a pretty neat thing and will make you physically attracted to people that attract you in other ways.
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So f*cking what 17 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
i am offended by your lack of offense at my offense of everyone elses offense
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In Australia, these come out of the drains 10 comments
In Australia, these come out of the drains 10 comments
I see no problem 45 comments
*fart noises* 8 comments
A small child 15 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
.. probably with as much care as you would a real child. maybe your car is just that smart.
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What's a pirates favourite drink ? Hi-C 5 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
i think that was sorta the point of the joke. i mean it IS tinder after all.
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So this is what I dealt with today at my LA Fitness Pool 45 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
i dunno i have a hard time believing this really happened. if someone really did utter those lines i feel like it would only be an attempt at a joke.
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Good comparison 21 comments
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deviledapple
· 9 years ago
sexual harassment, yes, sexual assault, no. laser pointers are not assault.
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I see no problem 45 comments
deviledapple
· 9 years ago
yeah as a single adult my grocery bill varies but i feel like 2180 is a pretty good estimate for half a year.