so your crush is a girl? good. it might really be just a gay dude she's friends with. i mean, there's lots of gay dudes working out. and then there's the chance that she doesn't like muscular dudes. Me for example, as a girl, can say that I find Clavin Klein models not-really attractive. It's all the matter of taste. Don't give up unless she looks you straight in the eye and tells you you're a repulsive cunt she doesn't want to see ever again but I really doubt that will happen. :)
don't worry, it's great for a start! :) now i suggest you celebrate by eating something yummy and then plan on doing it again, and this time maybe ask her how she is, you know, just chat about unimportant stuff. don't worry if you end up panicking again and asking for something trivial again, it takes time and effort. the only important thing is that you don't freak out and give up permanently. :)
Mine told me she liked me back, flirted with me, told me she felt she could talk to me about anything, that if I ever needed to talk about anything shed always listen. Then she ditches me and starts chasing this loser who has no life, job, not in school. After months of being really close to this girl, she told me I wasn't worth 5 mins of her day. Out of nowhere. I fecal-matter you not, this was two weeks after she said she'd talk through anything with me and that, to her, I was the most important guy. She just turned out to be a peice of crap.
Anyway... This post can be just one big virtual hug.
I started to like my crush because I thought we both had many thing on common, I thought he actually liked me because everyone told me that he did. So I convinced myself that he really did. This was the day when he told me he liked my best friend. I know what you're going through. You are not alone
well, my crush is perfect, hes the best person ever! he is great to me! aparently we're really close, so close he thinks im the only person he can tell everthing to! and he does! including the girls he likes and how complicated it is because he cant decide which of those two (perfect model-like) girls he prefers. The worst part is that i dont know f i still like him, but i know for sure i havent stopped, i dont now how to feel about this, you know the worst part? i can never get away from him, even for a minute, he comes every thursday to study with me, so i guess i'll see him tomorrow as i find out which of those girls he chose
To everyone: thanks for the support. Me and her are still friends,but that looks about how far it will get. Although I am sad she is with someone else, they deserve each other and I am just glad they are happy
Anyway... This post can be just one big virtual hug.