Just chill (probably) xD
We hung out at prom, and he mentioned it then, but we met up and he asked if i wanted to go on a date with him
He's a total dork, it was sweet xD
It's really odd
Like, he messages me first, but is REALLY blunt and weird
He told our mate that we're gonna try to be friends
Even tho I told him I didn't want to
So idk what's happening
I didn't tell you
I had to speak to the police again today about the incident with Lore a few months ago
It's so annoying that it keeps being dragged up
I have no idea tbh
The very worst thing that could happen is that I'd "technically" be a sex offender
And he already has a criminal record (I think)
So I did it for him
We haven't spoken properly in weeks (the only time we had private convos was when we were arguing)
He hasn't told me he loves me in weeks
He told me I make him depressed when he talks to me, which is why we haven't spoken
We both agreed to work on our problems
But it seemed like he thought I could solve my problems all of a sudden, then apparently I expected him to talk to me all of a sudden
He kept saying I was assuming things all the time
It seemed like he was losing interest in me tbh
Then he blocked me on fb
So I broke up with him because I felt so guilty I made him feel annoyed and depressed all the time, and a few other things
That's why I broke up with him
I felt too guilty that I made him feel like that.
I might leave my new account too
I can't watch him moving on and talking about a new gf when that happens
Does he know I've got a new account?
Honestly this website is was kinda keeps my mind off things.
I was kinda looking forward to hearing "I love you" on my bday
I can't remember the last time I heard that, my parents don't even say it anymore soooo
Ok so
I had an induction day at college today
And I met this REALLY cute guy
We hit it off, I was all flirty
I thought it would take my mind off.. ya know
And I was all cheerful during the conversation
As soon as it finished, I ran into the bathroom and started crying
Very bittersweet
This is what he's been saying
"No stop fucking saying that Sadie
It's my fault
I couldn't do what a man should do
I gave up
It's my fault
So hate me for it"
..
"I am admitting when i was wrong
It was MY fault
Don't blame yourself
I wasn't amazing
I'm not amazing
I'm just a kid with issues
More issues than a kid should have"
Yeah feel free
This is what he just said..
"I like you Sadie
I'm not willing to go again because I'm not right for you
I'm not the type to chase after you
I'm not the type to be amazing or your hero or special person
I'm me and that's it
It's what I've known from the start
I'm not good enough"
I guess the only thing I can think of doing is just helping him feel better about himself. Long distance kinda makes people have a hole in their heart, he's probably struggling with that more than anything. I couldn't know for sure, but I would guess there might be more personal things too.
I'm so sorry!
I'll talk about something else..
Idk if I told you, but here we go
So at college I've taken animal care as a course
And the have the FLOOFIEST doggo ever!!
She's the sweetest baby
I'm so excited
AND I'VE HAD A CRUSH ON HIM FOR LIKE 2 YEARS
THEN MAYBE BACK TO ONE OF OUR HOUSES TO CHILL
We hung out at prom, and he mentioned it then, but we met up and he asked if i wanted to go on a date with him
He's a total dork, it was sweet xD
I've spoken with HIM (:/) a few times lately btw
Like, he messages me first, but is REALLY blunt and weird
He told our mate that we're gonna try to be friends
Even tho I told him I didn't want to
So idk what's happening
Idk if I want to be friends with him, but I can't not talk to him
If that makes any sense?
I had to speak to the police again today about the incident with Lore a few months ago
It's so annoying that it keeps being dragged up
Kinda took the blame for it
So I sort of am
The very worst thing that could happen is that I'd "technically" be a sex offender
And he already has a criminal record (I think)
So I did it for him
On a lighter note
It's my date later!
I try to impress
I'm freaking out
F U C K
Kill me pls
Fine
Is the wedding still going ahead? :D
Have you planned anything for it yet?
Keep your cool!
You've seen me xD
But I'm probably heavier
Kill me pls
I said UGH bc Lore started an argument with me
Stiiiiiill crying
Soooooooo
But yeah, idk why he does this to me
Wow, that makes sense
W h y doesn't he get that it hurts when he's says stuff like that
If he's not gonna do anything about us, don't say that shit
I got a kiss on the cheek at the end of it too haha
And yeah, he said he really wants to see me again
So I've got to think about what to do
How's lover boy?
How's life been?
Anything exciting happened?
I won't ask, in case it's too personal
You'll be absolutely fine :)
You made me choke on my tea XD
You kill me xD
ALL THE WAY
THAT IS ADORABLE
What's up?
And I don't know
I'm honestly so confused
Haha it's my fault anyways
He's the good guy here
But he did something, and it just tipped me over the edge
I initiated the break up
It was a very complicated break up
Cos I totally regret doing that
Btw can you delete your comment on let's chat yo?
Only a few people know I'm here
It depends on what Lore decides
I gave him a decision to make
So ye
Cos I doubt you want to know that much
But if you speak to him, don't blame him
It was my fault tbh
He hasn't told me he loves me in weeks
He told me I make him depressed when he talks to me, which is why we haven't spoken
We both agreed to work on our problems
But it seemed like he thought I could solve my problems all of a sudden, then apparently I expected him to talk to me all of a sudden
He kept saying I was assuming things all the time
It seemed like he was losing interest in me tbh
Then he blocked me on fb
So I broke up with him because I felt so guilty I made him feel annoyed and depressed all the time, and a few other things
I'm definitely not the easiest person to love
The break up was for him
Not for me
I wanted to stay with him
And he told me afterwards he wanted to stay with me too
It's complicated
You're talking to him?
I was willing to move tbh, I don't have any ties here
I want him back
I told him that multiple times during our break up
I felt too guilty that I made him feel like that.
I might leave my new account too
I can't watch him moving on and talking about a new gf when that happens
Does he know I've got a new account?
Yeah, if he doesn't want to be with me (which I assume he doesnt)
I'm leaving
I'm gonna leave
He's gonna realise he doesn't want to be with me
And I won't be able to resist trying to talk to him
Shame it turned out like this
And who knows
The future is unpredictable
You stay badass too
He got my hopes up again
He told yuki he would think about it, and made it sound like he would want me back
Haha here comes the crying again :/
I was kinda looking forward to hearing "I love you" on my bday
I can't remember the last time I heard that, my parents don't even say it anymore soooo
So a little less than 2 weeks away
Are you still talking to him?
Just tell him
I won't ever try to contact him
And I won't blame him whatever choice he makes about things
But yeah
Thanks
You too!
..Yet
I luuuuurrrrvveeee yaaaaa
Aren't you getting married??
Or is that me misunderstanding what you said in a chat?
CONGRATULATIONS MEEEEEEEEEEP!!!!
YOU'LL BE A BEAUTIFUL BRIDE!
And I'm sure you're a great looking couple :)
He picked me up to kiss me half the time XD
Oooh yes, that is a risk!
At least he can catch you with his muscly arms when you faint!
I'm fine
I just didn't wanna ruin your happy mood!
I had an induction day at college today
And I met this REALLY cute guy
We hit it off, I was all flirty
I thought it would take my mind off.. ya know
And I was all cheerful during the conversation
As soon as it finished, I ran into the bathroom and started crying
Very bittersweet
And haha I doubt it, but thanks XD
I bet you're gorgeous!
And I will admit N O T H I N G
That will prove you wrong!
THAT MADE ME GIGGLE
It would be our 4 month anniversary
It might not seem like anything to you
But I still feel down
He's probably banging some other chick by now XD
He never saved any pictures of me
He was my lockscreen too
I would've had my other horses, but that's complicated..
Yellow labs, brother and sister :)
YIIIISSSS
Hello there!
Why would you say that?
Yeah he knows it's me haha
I don't want to talk to him anymore tho
Other guys have showed interest in me (it was my prom the other day)
And all I could think about was him
Tbh I couldn't enjoy myself that much
There's a pic on my profile if you wanna see
But thank you!
And sure
FINE
That sucks, it's not all it's cracked up to be tho
How old were you in seventh grade?
That's kinda creepy
Btw
I'm talking to Lore in private rn :/
I'm not enjoying it
I got myself into this mess
I've just gotta wallow in self pity
From what he's told you
Do you think he'd ever get back together with me?
I really need your help
It's urgent atm
Thank you!
Imma try
OMF
HE JUST KEEPS SAYING SORRY FOR HURTING ME
WHAT DO I DO
IVE TRIED
IDK HOW WELL THATS GONNA GO THO
"No stop fucking saying that Sadie
It's my fault
I couldn't do what a man should do
I gave up
It's my fault
So hate me for it"
..
"I am admitting when i was wrong
It was MY fault
Don't blame yourself
I wasn't amazing
I'm not amazing
I'm just a kid with issues
More issues than a kid should have"
And he still said it's all his fault
Oml
Why is he so frustrating
This is what he just said..
"I like you Sadie
I'm not willing to go again because I'm not right for you
I'm not the type to chase after you
I'm not the type to be amazing or your hero or special person
I'm me and that's it
It's what I've known from the start
I'm not good enough"
But he said part of the reason he gave up was when I used to feel like that
At least he's hearing that from someone else
If he goes
I'm making myself move on
I really thought I could persuade him
Thank you for trying
I'll talk about something else..
Idk if I told you, but here we go
So at college I've taken animal care as a course
And the have the FLOOFIEST doggo ever!!
She's the sweetest baby
I'm so excited
But I get to work with her for hours everyday!
And there's tons of animals!
Hedgehogs, cats, Guinea pigs, etc..
Let's move to England
Because I apparently want to be constantly exhausted for the next 2 years
My grandad probably has cancer
They said we should move him into a hospice asap
But I'm not gonna go while I'm still a blubbering mess
I need to be strong for him
But thanks!
I just want to do what's best for him
I want soup
And my mate had it when we were younger
So I'm not a stranger to all this
Same goes for you!
D O G G O
What a good boy
I'm a homewrecker
What about you?
You two are adorable