Fucking seriously. Right now, I am in the best, most happy, wonderful relationship I have ever been in, and it's with my best friend. He was my best friend for over a year before we got together and I NEVER knew he had feelings for me before he told me. We had respect for each other and because of that respect, we honored each others boundaries and valued our friendship over just "getting some". If you truly care for the person just fucking go for it. The friendzone does not exist.
No one is obligated to be in a relationship with you because you're nice to them. If you expect something in return for being a "nice guy" you're not a nice guy. Just remember kids, all good relationships form out of obligation.
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That's not what the post it saying. It says that if you're trying to go for a girl, and get put in the "friend zone" then you should still try, because the friend zone is only in your minds
The friendzone is bullshit. The only people who believe in the friendzone are people too immature and/or naive to realize being nice to someone isn't enough to warrant sexual gratification. No one is obligated to date you. If you ask a girl out and she says no because she sees you as a friend,it's tough I'm sure, but she is in no way obligated to date you just because you're nice to her. She has a right to say no. If you can't see that, then yeah, you're the emotionally immature one. Grow up.
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Im... Not sure what you're talking about. This post is about how the Friendzone is bullshit, yes, and about how you should ask, AND ACCEPT REJECTION. You're basically yelling your agreement angrily
Yeah.. No ones saying if you're nice to someone. They have to be in a relationship with you. The post is saying that you need to step up and say something. Even if the answer may be a no
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It isn't really. It's like ripping off a bandaid, it's all in your head until you do it, then it's not that bad.
I heard they have a wiener party today ;)