I dunno...I think you should wait until you're an adult and know how it works and take proper care. I personally am waiting until marriage. seeing teens my age talking about sex and "I lost my virginity to that guy" is kind of sad. Your virginity is a special thing, it shouldn't be wasted on "oh some boy in 7th grade" you should wait for the right person and are sure that's the one. Because once it's gone you're not going to get it back.
i think you're quite right about the whole thing, i'd just like to add something myself. i don't consider virginity to be a big deal but i do think people should be READY for losing it in terms of sex-appeal and desire and stuff. if you don't feel the need to ripp the clothes of the person you intend to lose your virginity to, if you don't feel the burning desire to fuck them into the matress, if you don't feel at least a little bit attached to them then it's probably better to wait and find someone else who can make you feel these things. When doing it, there should be excitement and lust not fear or nervousness or something. or at least taht's what i think and why i've spent quite a while chasing around. and no, i'm not a kid, i'm 20.
Yeah I understand your point. A lot of girls I feel are being pressured into having sex very young, so they just pick somebody they sort of like and regret it because they didn't actually feel anything for that person. And then they are labeled a slut. Seems like you can't ever win. Your a still a virgin? Well that means you don't have any fun! You had sex with somebody because we pressured you too? Your now a slut! I personally want to wait till marriage because if I had sex before I just don't think my wedding night would be special. But this is just me. All in all though I just think you should wait until you're an adult and are responsible.
i strongly believe that your first time should be with someone you know and care about. it's supposed to be a bonding of the human form, and it's meaningless if it's with someone that just wants to use you or someone you just met. I'm thirteen and I totally agree with barfingrainbows
I'm a virgin and I'm waiting untill I'm married. I see sex as a two way street. Our culture says its a one way street though, for our own plesure. But it should be loving someone so you want to give them pleasure
Maybe 14 year olds
i think most of the people are 15/16, but thats my opinion.
But it's only 1.
So stop generalizing!
Please.
I'm waiting till marriage (: