Lol, that's why both horny boys and girls need to work together- if half your blood is heading out of your brain to *other* places right before sex, it takes two people together to think completely, lol.
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Im not advocating not wearing a condom.
They are one thing we need MORE of.
Just splurge a bit and buy the good ones.
Its worth it trust me
The size difference between Lifestyle brand condoms (the ones most frequently used in free health clinics) and Trojan or Durex is minimal- what I would suggest if you find them uncomfortable to put on is to use a water based lubricant along with the condom. While most condoms come pre-lubricated, sometimes you need a bit more depending on arousal level or that particular partner.
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The different sizes that are sold for condoms (ie, Magnum, XXL, etc.) are actually just marketing campaigns to overcharge men who want that label. The size difference is actually very, very minimal. So unless you need a smaller condom, 97% of men fit into regular condoms without constraint. The reason I know this is because I worked my school's safe sex program and was a Trojan "Campus Leader" for sexual safety for years. Lots of condoms, lol, and lots of talking about them.
Depending on your college- some that have religious backgrounds do not pass them out. A great way to find out is to call your local Planned Parenthood and ask if your campus is safe sex friendly, or if they have an organization on campus. You can also get free condoms and reduced birth control costs at Planned Parenthood itself.
A couple years ago we were having sex-ed in school and my teacher was like, "guys, don't ever say you can't wear a condom cause it's too tight. Your penis isn't that big, trust me." And everyone pretty much lost their shit.
I don't get why all the hate towards condoms. I understand that they make sex less fun and reduce sensation. Yeah, they can be uncomfortable.
Doesn't matter. Wear one.
No amount of excuses is going to be enough to justify unprotected sex. Especially if a pregnancy results. 9 months of carrying a child and then pushing the child out, is what you're asking of women when you refuse a condom. It's pretty shitty to put yourself above your partner like that.
Either wear one or don't have sex. Anyone who complains about abortions and women with children who have to live off welfare, need to read these comments. Then they can understand that a lot of the problem would be prevented if men were more responsible towards their partners and less selfish about how "terrible" wearing a condom is.
Sex creates life. Unless your want a pregnancy, there is LITERALLY NO EXCUSE to not protect yourself.
Ok girls, lets play a game.
Go grab a shower cap that is too small for your head, that is also made of cheap rubber.
Put it on your head and then make your head fill with blood until its swells to 3 times it original size.
Now imagine that pinching horrible abrasive pressure on your vagina.
These free condoms are awful.
Yes a condom will stretch WAY past its original size.
So will a shower cap.
That doesn't mean either is very nice to squeeze into.
Don't judge something you can't understand.
You're not the one who has to put these terrible things on your dick.
Firstly, I live in England. we have a seemingly substantial difference in free condom quality.
You may have a lot of experience talking about them and whatever passes as a safe sex chat in America. (im assuming its at least semi religion orientated)
We have either "Mates" condoms that are ridiculously tight, and the latex so thick as to reduce you to no sensation whatsoever. Or if you're lucky a bunch of donated ones from various orginizations.
And for all your 'experience' with condoms, you cannot for a second, claim to understand, unless you have a penis.
We will never understand what it is like to have a period. But you will never understand wearing a condom.
Lol, England needs to get on it's condom quality if America is outstripping you- that sounds horrible. I'll have to Google the STD spread in England- if the safe sex supplies are as limited as you say it must be in epic rates.
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I don't have a penis, you got me there- but I have worked on my college specifically for safe sex education, had a part time job at Hustler selling and educating about merchandise (which is our sex shop here in the states), and now work for a Family planning clinic where I travel to schools to do their sex 101talks and work as a medical assistant for STD screens and well person exams. So while you have a penis up on me, I doubt you have spent as much time talking/educating/counseling specifically about sexual health. I don't know what it's like to have an English penis, though, or the trials that come with it- so I am sorry your lot is heavy.
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Edit: Condom use in the UK, interesting: http://www.fpa.org.uk/factsheets/contraception-patterns-use
Awesome, you can write words into google and copy/paste a link well done.
If I had spent the last 20 years talking to girls about puberty I still wouldn't understand what its like to menstrate.
So no matter how many times you say you've worked with them, YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND WEARING A CONDOM UNTIL YOU HAVE WORN ONE.
I don't see why this is so hard for you to grasp.
Put your pathetic attempts at sarcasm to one side and just admit you only have second hand information to go on.
Looking at the USA's history of PSA's. They are far more interested in getting people to believe what's convenient Than actually giving people information.
(DARE anyone?)
You can regurgitate all the hot topic witty retorts your taught all you like. It shows your lack of maturity that when someone responds (who has more experience) and you attempt to shoot them down with unregulated 'facts' that the US is so famous for.
I've worn them for years. You haven't.
Get over it.
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Talking with that "maturity" to a girl, I think you only have worn them alone.
That is definitely the most anger I have gotten for not having a penis ever. I agreed- you and your personal experiences with wearing a condom as a man are relevant. I don't know if the ones you have difficulty with are lubricated or not, but I would recommend talking to your healthcare professional about your difficulty with them. The UK has a great program from what I can see when it comes to condom use, which is fantastic. Where your disdain for the US program comes from I am not sure (unless it's Bush era abstinence only, then I understand).
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I am sure your frustration and hostility is about a lot more than me and this post, so I wish you luck in working through it. I hope you find a sexual health plan you can be happy and comfortable with there over the pond :-)
It could be he has a deformed penis. I'm not being mean, men can have a deformed penis, making condom use uncomfortable. Go talk to a doctor, guest, and see if surgery is an option for you.
Im not advocating not wearing a condom.
They are one thing we need MORE of.
Just splurge a bit and buy the good ones.
Its worth it trust me
°
The different sizes that are sold for condoms (ie, Magnum, XXL, etc.) are actually just marketing campaigns to overcharge men who want that label. The size difference is actually very, very minimal. So unless you need a smaller condom, 97% of men fit into regular condoms without constraint. The reason I know this is because I worked my school's safe sex program and was a Trojan "Campus Leader" for sexual safety for years. Lots of condoms, lol, and lots of talking about them.
Doesn't matter. Wear one.
No amount of excuses is going to be enough to justify unprotected sex. Especially if a pregnancy results. 9 months of carrying a child and then pushing the child out, is what you're asking of women when you refuse a condom. It's pretty shitty to put yourself above your partner like that.
Either wear one or don't have sex. Anyone who complains about abortions and women with children who have to live off welfare, need to read these comments. Then they can understand that a lot of the problem would be prevented if men were more responsible towards their partners and less selfish about how "terrible" wearing a condom is.
Sex creates life. Unless your want a pregnancy, there is LITERALLY NO EXCUSE to not protect yourself.
Go grab a shower cap that is too small for your head, that is also made of cheap rubber.
Put it on your head and then make your head fill with blood until its swells to 3 times it original size.
Now imagine that pinching horrible abrasive pressure on your vagina.
These free condoms are awful.
Yes a condom will stretch WAY past its original size.
So will a shower cap.
That doesn't mean either is very nice to squeeze into.
Don't judge something you can't understand.
You're not the one who has to put these terrible things on your dick.
You may have a lot of experience talking about them and whatever passes as a safe sex chat in America. (im assuming its at least semi religion orientated)
We have either "Mates" condoms that are ridiculously tight, and the latex so thick as to reduce you to no sensation whatsoever. Or if you're lucky a bunch of donated ones from various orginizations.
And for all your 'experience' with condoms, you cannot for a second, claim to understand, unless you have a penis.
We will never understand what it is like to have a period. But you will never understand wearing a condom.
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I don't have a penis, you got me there- but I have worked on my college specifically for safe sex education, had a part time job at Hustler selling and educating about merchandise (which is our sex shop here in the states), and now work for a Family planning clinic where I travel to schools to do their sex 101talks and work as a medical assistant for STD screens and well person exams. So while you have a penis up on me, I doubt you have spent as much time talking/educating/counseling specifically about sexual health. I don't know what it's like to have an English penis, though, or the trials that come with it- so I am sorry your lot is heavy.
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Edit: Condom use in the UK, interesting: http://www.fpa.org.uk/factsheets/contraception-patterns-use
If I had spent the last 20 years talking to girls about puberty I still wouldn't understand what its like to menstrate.
So no matter how many times you say you've worked with them, YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND WEARING A CONDOM UNTIL YOU HAVE WORN ONE.
I don't see why this is so hard for you to grasp.
Put your pathetic attempts at sarcasm to one side and just admit you only have second hand information to go on.
Looking at the USA's history of PSA's. They are far more interested in getting people to believe what's convenient Than actually giving people information.
(DARE anyone?)
You can regurgitate all the hot topic witty retorts your taught all you like. It shows your lack of maturity that when someone responds (who has more experience) and you attempt to shoot them down with unregulated 'facts' that the US is so famous for.
I've worn them for years. You haven't.
Get over it.
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I am sure your frustration and hostility is about a lot more than me and this post, so I wish you luck in working through it. I hope you find a sexual health plan you can be happy and comfortable with there over the pond :-)