I agree, friendship shouldn't be about what you can get out of the person. If the person you are friends with develops feelings for you, and you feel the same, that's fantastic, but don't go onto a friendship expecting to get a relationship (or sex) out of it. That's just wrong.
I don't think people expect shit. I think people don't want to have a crush on a girl for several years and have to watch her fall in "love" with other guys who proceed to treat her like crap, even though you're a a good guy and would treat her the way she deserves and actually care about her, not a piece of ass.
That is what the friend zone is, so chill out. People do use it too much, but plenty of people ARE stuck in one.
Yeah, but the main problem is that the guy in the friendzone usually assumes that any other guy the girl days is an asshole and the he, the friendzoned one, is the only one who deserves her and would know how to treat her right.
That is what the friend zone is, so chill out. People do use it too much, but plenty of people ARE stuck in one.