In most cases people don't realize they can. Many (not all) in abusive relationships (whether physical or not) feel that they deserve to be treated that way. They may feel as if they did something wrong and therefore deserve punishment. Over time the abused will become used to it to where they associate pain with love. I have read many stories of abused children crying and begging for there mothers who would beat them or verbally abuse them after being taken away. They associate pain with love.
It should never ever go that far. I'm one of those people who think lowly of themselves (not a plea for attention, so don't give me pity) but know what they deserve. The moment I feel a relationship is toxic, I'm done. Someone should really help her, and as her best friend, I think guest should.
It's extremely hard to get through to people like that. They don't think like other people there only rational is that this person provides a home, food, car, health, etc. Therefore who am I to go against them. Also, many have no where else to go so they have to stay with the abuser.
I have primary ciliary dyskinesia (pcd), which is like cystic fibrosis but a bit different.
[..basically we all have what are called cilia (almost like nose hairs) (just go with it) they basically act in a similar way nose hairs do (again just go with it) and...agh just google it
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· 9 years ago
Now, while I do find this post completely legitimate, I do feel that there are still some people out there that do fraud the system, just for benefits, I'm not saying that ALL of them do it, but like every system, there will be frauds.
No, its just ADHD. You can't sit still or concentrate? MF learn some discipline. Or O you have anger management? Manage it don't take drugs for it. Be smart and find a way out. I sure as hell did. They don't have that shit in other countries. Our only cure is own perseverance.
Ok. That's a very nice opinion you have there. Now here's the problem. If you to were to scan a two peoples brains (one with an illness and one without) and put them side by side, you will see a difference. Depending on said illness there will be parts that light up that shouldn't, or parts that should light up but they won't. Your opinion is very nice and all, but try and learn about mental illnesses before you comment.
Anger management isn't the only mental illness. Also, you seemed fairly angry or distraught when posting it so it shows how well you've 'self managed' your anger.
ADHD is tough. Although it is managae without drugs, trying to get through school and stay on top of things is really didficult for me because my mind wanders a lot easier than other people's. It takes a lot more effort for me to focus and work than other people. Yes you are true, it's manageable but not everyone has the willpower to overcome it
[..basically we all have what are called cilia (almost like nose hairs) (just go with it) they basically act in a similar way nose hairs do (again just go with it) and...agh just google it