It's called "The Benjamin Franklin effect."

Or...I could punch them in the throat...just saying I've done it and it worked out pretty darn well.

What if they say no though

if you do this they can easilly take your money and run,anyway he doesn't like you

I do this without thinking about it. Even if it's something I can do myself. It's probably like one of those social instincts or something.

When I know someone doesn't like me and they do this to me it's like being walked on! I hate it!