I'd love to be there for that conversation

I don't who Or what ray j is and at this point I'm too scared to ask

Well you see mommy once used to be a nobody, and a helpful young man named Ray J projected mommy into fame.
'But how?'
Don't you have some homework to do? And by the way who told you about Ray J?
'Daddy...'

"He hit it first honey, 'nuff said."

It's a BBC thing.