When you're young and haven't discovered the internet. Now that you have people who show these to you, you can realize and appreciate the other message.
Actually as a child, I think I got more of the good things, than the bad expectations from disney. i mean When people point out all the bad examples disney has set, I realise that as a teenager but i don't think my 5 year old self really got that out of the movie.
*cough*breakups*cough*