a lot of girls apparently thing guys are all about lies and games and bs and none of it's true, and that when they say 'i love you' they dont mean it, etc. so the post is telling guys they have to put up with girls thinking it's all bs.
idk.
I'm just guessing.
For the majority, I think it's linked with insecurity. Since some don't think to highly of themselves, they wouldn't understand why others would genuinely like them...
I think part of it is insecurity, part of it is from issues with our pasts, and part of it is from media sexism and stereotypes and those few guys that actually fit that stereotype (and thus potentially ruin other men for us). It's really a big mix of things, but I think this is a good guideline for anyone. If you care for someone you really need to prove it.
Im crazy insecure and have no idea why my boyfriend likes me, I had a period in my life where i was bullied for my looks and a guy dated me for nine months as a joke.....so when guys do like me i tend to be unsure about it. I think that they are just saying things that they dont really mean.
I certainly think this way but I think that it's got to do with self esteem issues. I just don't believe that anyone could ever genuinely fall in love with me (save me your pity) and if someone ever said that they did love me, not that they would, I'd think "yeah yeah, whatever." I don't do it deliberately it's just easier to believe. If I believe you and then you end up hurting my feelings, well then I'm going to feel a right ol idiot, so I'll just act like you're lying and that way nobody has to form emotional attachments. Caring is a hassle.
Besides, I'm fiercely unattractive, not even I would date me! I'm doing you all a favour.
don't think is pity. But u sound like me. I think like the post says one because I would think I'm unattractive and because been hurt...bad. I'm not going to say it will happen for you (it probably will. It did for me) but I know u don't want to hear it I just hope thinking like that doesn't prevent you to open your eyes and heart for the nice people and to open your mind to reach all your goals
Most of it is from experience actually. I'm not an insecure woman, maybe guys just aren't into me idk. I've been told I'm beautiful and gorgeous, how can I be single, to even having a guy tell me that I might be the one lol and yet I'm still single. I can't help but think I'm always getting played.
what used to be the problem with me is that I believed guys easily and that was really bad but now, everything to me is either a lie or truth nothing in between.
I'm not insecure either. I just get hit on a lot and so I think that most guys just want to have sex with me. So when a guy tells me he's interested, I think he's interested in having sex with me and little else. So, yeah there's a long period of time where I just attribute everything he says to a game to get me in bed. And the sad thing is that very few guys ever get through that period, which basically re-affirms to me that my theory is correct.
idk.
I'm just guessing.
That's kinda weird though, do women really think like that?
Besides, I'm fiercely unattractive, not even I would date me! I'm doing you all a favour.