Let them be... They're just begging for attention and for someone to tell them repeatly otherwise, because they're way too insecure or bitches, love attention or whatever.
Has anyone realized that we are literally telling skinny girls that they aren't allowed to feel self conscious just because to you, they are pretty? As a girl who gets told that she's pretty and a twig and so skinny and weigh nothing, when I look at myself, I can only see a chubby/fat ugly girl. Skinny girls get self conscious and hate themselves too, myself as an example (apparently). Its not a cry for attention sometimes, its can be a sign of a girl who thinks so lowly of herself that she cant even see what everyone else does.
Thank you!! I was like that in middle school; I weighed 85 pounds (I'm barely at 95 now) and I thought I was ugly and fat because I thought that my hips and thighs were big. It was never a cry for attention, it was the opposite -- I felt like I looked so bad but could never express that to anyone because I was "so thin that I was just doing it for attention" and etc. Maybe my case isn't as common as other people's who are/were insecure, but it took me 3 years to learn that hey, I am beautiful and I don't care what anyone says because I know I am and that's what matters, not the stupid 8th grade girls who are drowning themselves in mascara. Now I'm 15 and I have a much better self-image, but it's kinda sad how long it took me to get here, and all because people think I shouldn't have a problem like that because I'm skinny. I was over twenty pounds underweight and thought I was fat based on what other girls told me was skinny. And no one should ever be led to think something like that.
excuse me?no,fuck no. If a girl thinks this way, its usually because she looks in a mirror and she sees the imperfections and magnifies them! She could see a slim girl the same size as her and think she herself is twice the other's size! Do you think girls become anorexic for fun? Do you think it's always for attention? No, this mindset you have is bitter and insensitive- Being skinny does not mean you have a perfect life full of self-confidence-get that in your head because believe it or not- not being skinny doesnt make you some sort of victim- it isnt their fault they're slim and it isnt their fault if they dont see it when people are always pushing the 'perfect body'. having someone say 'your skinny' doesnt automatically flip a switch in your brain to think 'oh yeah i am'
Preach it. Like how I said I'm my suuuuper long comment, not all skinny girls are happy with what they see in the mirror either. It doesn't matter if someone is 85 pounds or 185 --- this is a problem that doesn't happen just within a certain weight range. It's sad to see how many people aren't happy with who they see in the mirror. Guys, really... If you're reading this right now and you don't like who you are, please please please know that what other people think really does not matter in the least. You are beautiful and I really really hope that you know that. I may be the first person telling you that, maybe. But that doesn't mean what I'm saying any less genuine. You are beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, okay?
you're right- skinny girls must have no problems whatsoever-they must all be attention seeking bitches if they dont see their 'perfection'. seriously that's such a crap view to have.
Me: I have 20 pounds on you. What does that make me?
Girl: you're a twig, you're too skinny
What is logic?