I'm not a girl, but this is true for me. It's hard to find good, loyal friends that you can actually talk to with. I've only been able to pour my feelings and stuff out to one friend, just before I had to move away, and even then, it wasn't really talking, but over text. Since then, no one that i actually know knows much about me and how i feel, that's why I come on the internet, to talk to you guys. Like you, gottalovepotter, know more about my mental stuff than anyone of my current friends. And lots of you Funsubsters that see my comments on posts about love and cuddles. I could never say that to my friends or anyone that i actually know.
Anyways, i just want to say that this post isn't only true for girls, but for many boys as well, just that we may not show it. You may have many friends, but think about it, how many would you actually pour your feelings onto?
Wow. Thank you, kibblesmydog for the explanation. My heart goes out to you & I can relate to a lot of what you said.
It's absolutely okay though I think, to prefer to put yourself out, to only a few.
In it together.
@guest
Well, I put myself out to very few people, but I want to be able to tell my friends, but I can't. I want to talk to people, but I can't
It's hard
I'm sorry but what the hell does this mean. "Smart girls know their worth" but they are insecure? So are you saying they are worthless enough to be insecure? Is anyone really "smart" who does that. Wouldn't the actually smart girls be the ones who build up their esteem to a point they think is healthy, to a point they see themselves with their flaws but also how those flaws don't effect their worth as a person. I don't believe insecurity proves respect, don't romantisize that shit. Insecurity hurts and it's pointless. Smart people either fix their flaws or don't worry about them. They don't agonize, they do or accept.
It's only logical that women who pay a lot of attention to their looks would be the ones most worried about how they look. Models hardly count as an analog for "every girl".
Anyways, i just want to say that this post isn't only true for girls, but for many boys as well, just that we may not show it. You may have many friends, but think about it, how many would you actually pour your feelings onto?
It's absolutely okay though I think, to prefer to put yourself out, to only a few.
In it together.
Well, I put myself out to very few people, but I want to be able to tell my friends, but I can't. I want to talk to people, but I can't
It's hard