I don't have a problem making the first move, which puts me in the minority of the female population. It seems to be a universal social convention for the guy to make the first move. Also, I've noticed that when a girl is talking about a guy she likes, her friend (female) will most likely say "Do you think he'll ask you out?"
I'm generally a nice person, but anytime I chat with a new guy they always get the impression I'm flirting with them. I'm not, I'm just trying not to be a bitch
Definitely goes both ways, I get so confused around some guys like are you being awesome or flirting? Either way if they ask to hang out or anything I just say something along the lines that they seem cool, but I have a bf and don't want them to get the wrong idea but we can totally be friends, usually works out well. And before you all jump on no it's not friend-zoning, they have the option to be friends or nothing, I don't lead anyone on.
Quick question regarding this... What do you girls/women expect a guy to do on a date. I'm not new to this, have a problem approaching women or talking to them but it really pains me that I'm not able to build a lasting or any kind of relationship (just one night/day stuff). On a first date for an example? A kiss, a hug, hand holding...? And where it should be? I'm 19 and good with women but dates are the end of me. Thanks for any replies.
Speaking as a man with a 1.5 year relationship under my belt (I'm 18), I find that they are more likely to want a second date if you act civilized and kind. Not flirtatious or sexual. Open door for them, smile a lot and laugh with them. Don't expect to get laid or make out on the first date. A simple hug at the end and some kind words are the best first date goodbye. If you had fun, tell her.
Again this is coming from a guy and a girl might tell it different but this is my advice.
Firstly thanks for the reply. I'm writing because I have been just that. At start they were all quite fond of me, first date (or coffee) went well and then still great (sms,fb). But then came a second date I still did nothing and then at some point she just stopped responding or wrote a long sms saying: "sorry you great... I don't have time". This happened quite a few times and I am just here wondering if this is like normal in life or if I am doing something wrong. Still appreciate your responses :)
Well it depends on what kind of girl it is. My girlfriend and I took it real slow. Some girls might want to take it a lot faster and get bored when you don't make a move. It all depends on the girl. I suggest a second date to be a movie because you can make moves pretty easily
Again this is coming from a guy and a girl might tell it different but this is my advice.