We do it so we have proof that that is the answer so no one can be like " well did you ask and see ?"
It's like thinking there's a bear trap in front of you so you throw a rock first to make sure. If there isn't, great. If there is, they didn't act stupid.
Because so many people won't answer us honestly...most of our friends would rather lie to us to make us feel good than give us the honest answer. It makes it very confusing sometimes so we have to keep asking to find out if we're being lied to for our feelings sake or not...
And if they didn't, it would also be wrong because one's not supposed to make conclusins instead of asking, right?
What the fuck would be the right thing to do, then? Read minds? Never get upset? Huh?
It's like thinking there's a bear trap in front of you so you throw a rock first to make sure. If there isn't, great. If there is, they didn't act stupid.
What the fuck would be the right thing to do, then? Read minds? Never get upset? Huh?