Unfortunately I think there's gonna be enough people who actually think this is actually a thing and they'll start a riot over not accepting such an argument.
Honestly the funny thing is that people like you are so defensive they think everything is an attack upon their beliefs. Fucking chill out. Listen, if you EVER want LGBTQ to be accepted as normal, you have to allow people to poke fun at it, because people poke fun at everything; it doesn't indicate malevolent intent.
*Makes about black people*
"That's racist."
"If black people want to be treated like normal people they have to be able to have jokes made about them."
No it doesn't work like that. People can be offended at you making jokes about their identity at their expense it's not your place to say otherwise.
Yes and no. Yes it's bad to make fun of anyone in any way (but of course everyone makes fun of someone else), but if you're EXPECTING to be not made fun of because of who or what you are, than you're an idiot. You don't have to like it, but you are required to accept that it will happen.
My first thought was transphobia, and I'm straight as an arrow. Then again, I'm used to the right coming up with one ridiculous argument after the next to "fight the gay agenda" or whatever.
"That's racist."
"If black people want to be treated like normal people they have to be able to have jokes made about them."
No it doesn't work like that. People can be offended at you making jokes about their identity at their expense it's not your place to say otherwise.