Yor Speling Mattrs

That's not spelling, that's context.
Like, when someone fucks you over you can't interchange the most common phrase " how can you do that ? " with " how can an individual do that ? " the phrasing changes the situation.

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Google logo from the good old days

And when it says: how can you get hiv or herpes or whatever, thats just so you can prevent it

I would want to know how to mend a broken heart

i feel like this point would be better proven with the second being "how can you"