I really don't like the idea of setting specific boundaries for each other in a relationship like "you can't do this" or "you can't do that", however, it's good to communicate with each other on what kind of things you don't like and respect each other for it. For example "my boyfriend doesn't like the idea of me going out and partying every night. I still go out every once in a while and respect his wishes." Just find a happy medium.
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· 8 years ago
well if I had a girlfriend I wouldn't let her commit suicide
Tumblr: "I get to define how your relationships are! I don't care if you like your relationship the way it is, it OFFENDS me, so nope! You can't have it! By the way, I've never been in a relationship before. Guys what's the most painless way to end my useless existence. Kill me. Please, kill me, end my inconsequential life"
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I think it's because they can be pretty f*cked up over there
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No all of them. There's quite a few good blogs, simply the posts that are put on this website give it a bad image (other than Sephoria's posts, cause those of good). Besides, I kind've agree with this post, your SO shouldn't be trying to control you.
Future boyfriend: if you tell me to do something else than chores/thing you do for each other in a relationship you can consider yourself single and without balls
That's not what it's imply. It's talking about the relationships where you commonly hear "My wife won't let me play poker with my friends tonight" or "My husband won't let me get a job". The type of relationship where it becomes less about "respecting boundaries" and more about one party trying to control the other.
Yes, which is why I said "or", where as your post refuted mine, as though you knew that your interpretation was right, and mine was wrong, in spite of the aforementioned lack of support for that assertion.
sometimes i think people say their SO wont let them do things, simply because they do not want to do them but want to pretend like coming over for your dogs birthday party sounded SO cool
I think it's because they can be pretty f*cked up over there