What some men really look for in a woman

Heartbeat is nice, though.

No man looks for a thigh gap lol.

Who says a woman wants a thigh gap to get your attention?

On the thigh gap thing, its not necessarily about the thigh gap. A "thigh gap" is just a measure of how thin your thighs are, a really dumb measure based more around bone structure than thighs but a measure none the less. I know not all guys worry about how big a girls thighs are but there are many that do. When Im around guys ive heard them say things like "dude. her thighs are huuuuge" and not in a nice tone. Its a stupid thing to worry about but as long as there are guys who say that, or girls who say that, a goal of "thigh gap" is gonna stay a thing.

I have. I was talking to my bae and said "hey! Look! I can drop a quarter through there" and dropped change through her thigh gap. It was awkward but there is an instance where it has happened

It just seems unhealthy

I never notice either and I always look at first if a girl got nice legs. Regardless, if you're not an asshole then you're cool in my book.