So this is happening to me...

Well Fish, I don't know what to tell you. Hopefully they're just slow to adjust and they'll be okay with time.

Fish is fine but I prefer Jess/Jessie
But thank you

Dully noted, Jessie.
I like Jessie, it suits you. Don't ask why, or how, it just does.

I second that

Maybe they just don't know how to handle it? You're expecting them to know what to do in that situation.

I Third :) give them time

Well I can't pretend my situation is the same, but my family went all weird and wonky when I came out as gay to them, and things have calmed down a bit but there's still more distance between us than I like. It could just be that they're surprised and need time to get used to it. I would recommend talking it out with them instead of just pretending it's not happening, because it's better to get the issue resolved quickly than to let the hurt and confusion fester and boil over into an explosion. But also be aware that everyone is doing the best they can in this situation and it's not really easy on anyone. I'm sorry it's going difficultly for you, though. I wish you the best of luck and sincerely hope things improve for you soon.

Holy shit I take a shower and I come back and its like FRIENDS :D
Thanks for the advice but I dont think I can really handle bringing it up, not all of them are exactly supportive.

That's hard I'm sure, my parents are ultra-conservative so I know how it can be difficult to talk about things like this. I'm sorry they're not supportive, but at least you have friends who are here for you with internet hugs and friendship :)

Yeah no matter what we'll be right here with you!

Best of luck!

If they don't accept you you have the whole FUNDUB FAM that does

Hello my brethen

omg guys this whole string of messages is so cute. The loving and supportive messages give me warm fuzzies just reading them :)

Eh you haven't met my grandma frisky. She's a bit (lot) of both

Sounds like a lovely old woman lol

Yeah... My other grandma is the sweetest thing ever but my dads mom is worst than me.
And I'm satan.

Well that's actually kinda scary

This will be my first Christmas with the whole family since coming out, and they're all conservative and kinda bitchy so I can understand your struggle. Good luck to us both.

Like when she goes to the hell that I don't believe in but she shoves down my throat nonstop? LITERALLY TELLING MY FAMILY TO MAKE ME REPENT? AFTER THAT SHE'S GOING TO HELL'S HELL.

Crazy old bat.
Speaking of bats,maybe keep one around in case she becomes even crazier

I hope she learns to accept your awesomeness

Good luck frisky! Make sure to have fun! Be sure to bring your bf/gf *wink*

I would bring my gf but she lives in Colorado. If it all goes poorly I'm gonna run away and live with her. But thanks gamer_girl.

And hell's hell that sounds painful

Woah woah woah dudedet running away..? Are you financially stable?

I have over $4,000 dollars saved up in my bank account so I could last for a while until I could find a job down there.

Okay... Be careful though. And if you really want to ruin their lives before you go away just tell them some of the other stuff in the bible, and give them the versus too... Here ill find a website real quick.

*assuming they're christan*

Oh I have a pre-written letter all written out and I have a bag packed. I've been planning this for months, basically since I came out. I don't want to run away but I wanted to be prepared for the worst in case they kicked me out or something like that.

http://z7.invisionfree.com/Believe_it_or_Not/ar/t304.htm
Here we are. And be careful frisky... I'm serious... Dont do anything stupid...

They're Mormon, which is a branch of Christianity, so yeah

I'm just trying to be prepared. Christmas is always when a lot of blowouts happen in my family, and this year has been particularly tense so I'm just trying to be ready for the worst case scenario, I want to make sure I have somewhere to go.

We understand, frisky, we just want you to be careful. At least you have some idea of where to go if worse were to come, other people have nowhere. Hopefully it won't come to that, because that would be so sad.

I am being careful. Reckless would have been leaving months ago after fighting with my mom when I didn't want to go to church instead of waiting to talk and make up with her. But I appreciate the concern.

I'm assuming you're about 20-ish, frisky?

I'm 18 1/2.

So young to have to leave:(

Holy shit and you're pregnant?!? STORY TIME

LIKE HOW?

YAAAAAAAA! STORY TIME!

No I'm not ready

Lmao story time!

Oh okay... Do you plan to keep the baby..? Wow we got dark really fast

Uh no sorry

Are you gonna put it up for adoption? Or...?

Oh... Well um...
Uh
Get well?
*whispers to frisky*
WHAT DO I SAY?!?

Nothing I have a future as a designer so I'm giving it up and if you want a story tell me when your ready

*Whispers to gamer_girl* Just be supportive and maybe offer condolences?
@lmao I'm sorry you can't keep the baby but good luck with your future endeavors

You want to know something I'm sorry:-(:-(:-(:-(