Wtf I thought we were against the way society portrays the "perfect body shape." Some people don't have a choice to lose weight, my cousin has a symptom where she can't lose weight just like that. Instead of saying "you should get up and run a little" you should hear a reason. Your just bringing a persons confidence down....
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· 8 years ago
The difference is your cousin has an excuse lots of other people don't
I had an epiphany with this several months ago. In the last 5 months, I have lost 25+ pounds. My brother has lost 75+.
Whenever I tell this to people, often times I hear, "oh honey. You're beautiful just how you are!" And then we proceed with the Why I wanted to lose it and yada yada. Fit and healthy is beautiful, too, and for some reason it is under attack.
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· 8 years ago
I was expecting an impending shitstorm but you guys are taking this quite well
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have a few friends that like medium to bigger girls. That's what they like. I don't judge nor would I ever be able to. If they are beautiful to them who am I to say that what they see is wrong?
Personally I like fit girls. Skinny is fine but, personally I believe there is too skinny. Beautiful to ME is fit, tall and above all...kind, caring, loving and a good person. Fit, skinny, tall, short...all can be ugly people if their personality is ugly.
Beauty is a unique opinion. No one will ever win this discussion. I accept my friends that don't see beauty as I do...and I don't have to compete with them for the girl...win win ;-)
Whenever I tell this to people, often times I hear, "oh honey. You're beautiful just how you are!" And then we proceed with the Why I wanted to lose it and yada yada. Fit and healthy is beautiful, too, and for some reason it is under attack.
Personally I like fit girls. Skinny is fine but, personally I believe there is too skinny. Beautiful to ME is fit, tall and above all...kind, caring, loving and a good person. Fit, skinny, tall, short...all can be ugly people if their personality is ugly.
Beauty is a unique opinion. No one will ever win this discussion. I accept my friends that don't see beauty as I do...and I don't have to compete with them for the girl...win win ;-)