If your spouse is cheating they arent gonna tell you. They will lie about it (duh thats why its called cheating). I think the fact that there are nice people out there that will tell someone is the only way people figyre out their spouse is cheating. I would want someone to tell me if my husband ever cheated.
I don't think this is any of this person's fucking business. Not cool to read other people's texts, not cool to interfere with somebody others relation.
Also the woman was heavily pregnant, and this does call in the question of paternity. The OP is potentially saving the husband from major heartache in the future.
Honestly: if I was with my wife at a game or concert, with her sitting next to me sexting with another guy, and I don't realize it, I'ld mainly have to blame myself. I'm not going to lie, I would like to know, but it still would be wrong for some stranger to tell. None of you knows this couple, they might have an unexpressed agreement, and addressing it from outside might disturb that, which probably neither of them wants to happen. I never believed this "I didn't see it coming" narrative. If you don't get that there is something seriously wrong in a relation, then maybe because the relation is very shitty anyway, and only one part is the cheating, the other part is the ignorance. If you're a very close friend, ok, maybe acceptable. If you're a total stranger, just shut it.
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