You really shouldn't be dating while in full swing of puberty at that age. This is mostly for the guys but the vast majority of them are not mature enough to be doing this. However, at least they will have practice for when they are older.
papajohn, I agree. I mean, puberty or whatever doesn't much matter. But really, why make life tough for a kid that potentially struggled to get up the courage to ask a girl out, take her on a date, and is likely already stressed about doing and saying the right thing. Why would you want to be the bad in the world so intentionally? We're better than that.
I'd probably be the one that orders four kids meals for myself while the other person is just sitting there in embarrassment as I'm playing with dinosaur-shaped chicken nuggets.
"Ooh yes please" *looks at date* "do you want one too?" *date looks at me weird* (at table) "pew-pewpewPEWWWWWWW" *is playing with the dinosaur nuggets and pretending they have little guns*
I think that it would be a good ice breaker for a nervous couple. Like, both are freaking out, thinking 'damn what are we going to talk about' and then BAM suddenly they have a topic, and they can even accept, cause the kids menu is awesome.
So some young man is taking his GF on a date, instead of "let's hang out" or "Netflix and chill," and you have to disrespect and humiliate him? Let me guess--if he leaves a small tip because the service was bad (humiliating and disrespectful), you'll decide that means all boys that age are bad in some way. Do you also judge girls like that? After all, if the boy is too young to date, wouldn't she be as well? My guess is that you don't; all your judgmental and negative feelings are reserved for boys.
"*sweating*"