Its a start to what could happen in the future if ur not careful of what ur actions or lack of actions might end up in. Trying to point out that letting ur child curse from a young age without discipline, letting ur child dance i.e shaking her ass like girls at most parties/clubs nowadays, allowing ur child to wear revealing clothes from a young age, could end up in ur child being involved in drugs/alcohol abuse/underage pregnancies/diseases, etc.
Give them a good sex education like how to use condoms, the morning after pill, birth control... It shouldn't be that much of an issue if you actually teach them how to have sex properly
Teens aren't stupid. They understand the MASSIVE jump between wearing revealing clothing and having sex. If they don't then they probably aren't legally allowed to have sex.
if a kid thinks it is okay to swear, they might think it is okay to do other things. If swearing is bad, but their parent thinks otherwise, then they might just assume that it's okay to stay out late, get into trouble, drink, or have sex. If the parent encourages any of that then it's all on the parent. I don't think it's about the jump between revealing clothes and having sex.
Firstly this "swear words lead to sex and drugs" notion is absolute horse shit and it pisses me off how much a taboo those words are. And again: CHILDREN AREN'T FUCKING MINDLESS FUCKING MACHINES AND DRUG VACUUMS. THEY UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOOKING SEXY (WHICH IS WHAT A LARGE PORTION OF GIRLS ARE DOING WITH THAT TYPE OF CLOTHING) *stops yelling abruptly * and actually have sex! And the difference between staying late and doing drugs! If they're in a situation where they would take hard drugs then the upbringing of the child wouldn't be that much of a factor considering that it would probably be due to the rebellious nature a lot of teens develop or peer pressure
I get the ass shaking, and revealing clothing can lead to making your daughter a bit more promiscuous, but cursing is very far from making your child promiscuous. I know plenty of people who curse and who have been cursing for a long time even at a younger age who didn't become sexualy active at a young age so saying that it's in relation to your child pregnant at a young age is a bit of a stretch
*slowly backs away, hands up in surrender* my point is that if a parent lets their child do bad things without consequence it /could/ lead to the child doing worse things
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Thatgaymingsinger -Writing in caps & swearing isn't going to change anyone's mind lol.
We're not saying that swearing defo leads to sex. For some guys its actually a turn off for girls to swear. We're implying that it could lead to girls that don't have parents to keep them on the straight and narrow, or at least to give them good advice (like u said) to be a starting point for them to live the bad life. We all swear but usually our parents tell us off straight away not laugh and act like its okay. Our parents usually don't actively go out and buy us mini skirts and encourage us to dance in a slutty way. Girls with parents like this of course would think its cool and whatever. Yes they have a mind and are not stupid, but some go a little too far coz of lack of good parenting and end up doing shit. U mentioned this & I agree.
This pic blames the parents not caring enough. Not the kid for just swearing.. And lookin sexy brings attention from guys... there will be sex when she gives in.
A surprising number of you are missing the point, focusing on the wrong part of the cartoon. It's simply pointing out that encouraging bad behavior in children because you think it's cute could lead to the child making poor decisions later in life. Far too many of you are focusing on the pregnancy part.
It's not always like this. My sister has always been a goody two shoes, she always went to school and listened to our parents. Somehow, though, she ended up pregnant at 15. ¯\(°_o)/¯
We're not saying that swearing defo leads to sex. For some guys its actually a turn off for girls to swear. We're implying that it could lead to girls that don't have parents to keep them on the straight and narrow, or at least to give them good advice (like u said) to be a starting point for them to live the bad life. We all swear but usually our parents tell us off straight away not laugh and act like its okay. Our parents usually don't actively go out and buy us mini skirts and encourage us to dance in a slutty way. Girls with parents like this of course would think its cool and whatever. Yes they have a mind and are not stupid, but some go a little too far coz of lack of good parenting and end up doing shit. U mentioned this & I agree.
This pic blames the parents not caring enough. Not the kid for just swearing.. And lookin sexy brings attention from guys... there will be sex when she gives in.