Find that special someone

Hello there Its me from the future wondering why I can't not see you in every post's comments

Oh, hello from 4 years ago, guy who takes issue with people commenting more than an arbitrarily-arrived-at number of times per day. What's your magic number?

Im sorry, but as of last year i now identify as a cool ranch, so if you wouldn't use male gender terms with me that would be greatly appreciated.